#melshiftingasks

Heya! I have deactivated my ask box for, at least, 15 days. It has gotten to a point where im starting to feel overwhelmed because of how many requests im getting (each with its own level of difficulty and time commitment) and to be honest, it makes me not want to continue with anything lol—so the best option is: finish the +15 requests i have now, enable asks for 15 days once all requests are completed, then disable requests once I reach 10, deactivate box until i finish those, and repeat the cycle.

It makes me feel bad to see that I have requests from a month ago, but time and creativity sometimes don't go hand in hand (not to mention that I also want to upload my own ideas).

I hope you can understand! And apologies to those who left me something and I haven't done it yet; I'll complete them all soon <3

I know this might be a bit random but I trust you enough to ask because I feel like you can help me understand this better.

If I really believe that I’ve successfully shifted to this reality, what could be the reason why I'm struggling to shift to my other DRs?

I saw a post that says; the only thing that matters in shifting is your belief and you're the only one who can decide wether you shift or not.

Do you think its because since I believe I shifted here (like this is a “better CR”), maybe shifting to a similar reality feels easier than shifting to a completely different one?

Even if I did, I still struggle to shift to another "Better Cr."

Heyyy!

Absolutely; many of us shifters still can’t shake off the deeply ingrained limiting belief we’ve held for YEARS that this reality is the only one: for this reason, shifting to a completely different one can be a bit of a challenge for your conscious mind, because it goes against everything it thought it knew. When shifting to a reality similar to your CR, you don’t view it as something so shocking or “impossible,” but rather as a possibility that could eventually become true.

So here’s a tip I can give you: take it step by step. You’ve already shifted into a mirror reality where one thing changed; now aim for another mirror reality where something slightly bigger, more important, or more memorable changes. Keep changing “familiar” elements until your conscious mind adapts to the idea that there isn’t just a single variable.

It's hard to let go of those limiting beliefs, but they aren't set in stone ;)

I saw this post saying something like, “the reason you don’t shift even if you’re doing everything is because subconsciously, you still believe you’ll wake up in your CR. The only thing stopping you is you.”

I actually relate to it because I’ve been trying everything and I’ve felt really close a few times, but I still end up waking up in my CR.

Is it actually possible that, subconsciously, you still expect to wake up in your CR?

If yes, how does that even happen? Could it be because I’ve spent years waking up in my CR, so it’s just something my mind is used to?

Also, aside from affirming, is there anything else that can help change subconscious beliefs? Like subliminals maybe? I hear about “reprogramming subliminals” a lot in shifting, but I’m not really familiar with them, will it help?

Heya!!! absolutely—the thing is, this is a false sense of belief: even if you say affirmations, meditate or do other things to feel connected to shifting, the very idea that shifting is real doesn't quite sit right with you in a subconscious level yet.

And yes, routine can be a factor! The conscious mind likes structure: if you wake up every day knowing you’ll do a certain thing, the moment you realize you’ll be doing something completely different the next day can be a little unsettling for the conscious mind.

Look, anything will work as long as you believe in it: want to listen to playlist of 10 subliminal for that? Go for it. Want to meditate for 30 minutes a day? Sounds good—maybe you just need that little push for everything to click into place. Look for shifting in the little moments: did you wake up at 8 instead of 9? That’s because you shifted into a reality where that was possible, etc. Little by little, you’ll start building that idea (which is a reality) that you’re a master who can do it wherever and however you want.

Hii! I don't like to label things within shifting as ‘bad’ or ‘good’ honestly, although the "technical" answer to your question would be: no. The same thing happens to me! – The truth is that visualisation involves the use of several or all of the senses, so one cannot assume that ‘imagining’ = ‘visualising’.

However, my point to argue that what you are doing is not necessarily “wrong” is that, as stated before, the difference lies mainly in the involvement of emotions—you could be doing it ‘wrong’ and seeing your scenario in great detail, just as you could be doing it “right” and feeling nothing. So, even if people here tell you, “No, that's not how it works,” just go with what you think works best and what you can do! That way, it even works as a placebo effect or is simply another form of shifting (I hope you understand what I mean).

I find it difficult to break out of the ‘external narrator’ model, so sometimes I don't do it! Yes, both you and I are the ones living that reality, and viewing it that way is a bit strange, but again, honestly, it doesn't matter ‘how’ you get there as long as you achieve the same result—so, short ansewer: yes! it can be like that!

There is not just one way, nor is there a single path to experience shifting <3

heya!! omg ofc!! thats something that ive been puting off ever since i started to 'build' my pinterest account (bcs for some reason. male/boy pictures just dont appear in my searches???), and its def time to do it! lol - the ones i have are so few that i feel embarrased to not have done it before im sorry 😿😿

omg thank you sm pretty! ive been having some issues with shifting overall, which led to me kinda? losing motivation for a while, so reading this is actually so helpful for me <333

i love hearing that what i write is actually useful for shifters! :3

omg reallyyy?? sorry im seeing this just now! thats acc so awesome!!

this is funny to me bcs posting in this account actually helps me with my english lol this is why, sadly, i rarely post on here in spanish - howeverrr, my tiktok account (@melshifting) is purely in spanish! just throwing this self-promo in here in case you want to check it out lool

heyy! omg im sorry, sometimes i deactivate during nighttime; don't ask me why it's just a weird habit i have once in a while lol - sorry for the inconvinience, it's already working as usual now! :3