Depressing fact:
The only time most straight men will absolutely INSIST on making eating you out/fingering you the focus of a sexual encounter is if you explicitly tell them that it's off limits/will cost extra 💰 that they don't wanna spend. Really shows how normative male heterosexuality is based on conquest/domination/ability to exert control over women rather than either party's pleasure 🙄🙄🙄











