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PRODUCTIVE APPROACHES TO LIFE

Here are three productive dispositions towards life. Consider them.

If you like them – adopt them.

REDEFINE YOUESELF EVERY DAY

That means that we should reinvent ourselves every day.

Whether you like it or not, we live under continuous changes. Our reality is perpetually changing.

Life around us is in continuous transformation. Consciously or not, we are being ceaselessly transformed.

Our chronological age changes every day. Every twenty-four hours our age changes.

Our outer appearances change incrementally as time goes by. During childhood we grew lots of hair. As we proceed living to our life’s end we get there with sparse hair or no hair. We change our own definition of who we are. One time I was a medical student, then a medical doctor. Later, I showed up as a Sunday morning Bible preacher. Look it up on YouTube…

Consider the transgender movement - people change their gender. The Olympic athlete Bruce Jenner is now Ms. Caitlyn Jenner.

Ronald Reagan reinvented himself from a film industry actor to US president.

We have choices. The choices before us are either to let things happen to us -- go bald, or get a hair transplant.

Would you let s stranger decide the coloring of your hair?

Should we let other people define us? This is the question.

It is our personal responsibility to reinvent ourselves in response to the changes around us. We are always in a better position reinventing ourselves, and define who we are rather than let others do it to us.

Folks who are determined on self-improvement are self-transformative.

LIVING LIFE TO THE LIMIT

This comes naturally to those who have a vision and goals.

I found that achievement of a goal is easier than carrying the hardships of an ambiguous generality. Having a goal means that you know what you want.

Life around us brings flow waves of opportunities. Hurricanes of opportunities!

Many times it is enough to have a goal and then keep your eyes and ears open and the goal rolls right in your doorstep. Ask and you shall receive

Trespassing limits and crossing boundaries is a misperception.

Who sets the limits for us? Do you let others decide what your limits are? For many years it was believed that a man cannot run a mile in less than four minutes, until in 1954 Dr. Roger Banister did it.

We need to live without bias and avoid assumptions. Assumptions have no basis in our empiric reality.

Be unbiased - take it to the limit. If you trespass a boundary – it is a lot easier to ask forgiveness than permission...

DO YOUR OWN THING

Live your own life. Go ahead and do what you think is right for you.

Tell nobody where you are headed.

When you don’t tell no one what you are about to do, then no one can intimidate you with their own fears of failure.

Why would you agree to carry the burden of other people’s prejudices?

Notice how leading politicians go everywhere speaking in public and never tell their future public office plans…

IN SUMMATION:

Ø Reinvent yourself

Ø Bring it to the limit

Ø Do your own thing

© Mandy Lender 2011, 2013, 2021

                         MANDY LENDER: THE TRUTH

If you reached this blog post then it is because ad-non-sense by Google’s search engine referred you here.

Mandy Lender is not a lender.  He does not loan money quickly to anybody. Mandy Lender is not related to Quicken Loan or QuickenLoan.

Mandy Lender is not related to home mortgage companies and is not a mortgage broker.  

While Mandy Lender has nothing to do with QuickenLoan – he is the father of the Attractome.

Yes #attractome.

So who is Mandy Lender?

Mandy Lender is a physician, author, speaker and volunteer.   Dr. Lender’s books revolve around the Law of Attraction and the Attractome.  

                                               BOOKS

Dr. Mandy Lender is the author of the book “The Vision of HabakkuK. The Law of Attraction in the Holy Bible”. (2010).

Dr. Mandy Lender second book titled “The Master attractor. The Law of Attraction in the Holy Bible and Beyond”.  (2013).  

Here is the truth about Dr. Lender’s books: if you will read and study the books carefully you may start attracting money and will have no need for a loan from any loan or mortgage company.

The good news is that Dr. Lender’s books are available for purchase from the author at this website:

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If you wish you can buy those books in any respectable bookstore, or on Amazon, Barnes&Noble and eBay.  

                                         ATTRACTOME 

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                        WHO WAS HARVEY SPAULDING OF SAGINAW?

Mr. Harvey Spaulding whose name adorns the banner of Toastmasters club 781 was and still is a mystery to all of us in many respects.    

The late Bob Heft of Saginaw MI authored a document which he handed to Paul F. Arnhold, DTM, who in turn gave me a copy saying “do with it as see fit”.   This document bears the date of October 1, 2009 and is titled: Report on Harvey Spaulding.

Before going any further I have to mention who was Bob Heft.  

Bob heft was a member of the Harvey Spaulding Toastmasters club 781.   Bob Heft was the designer of the present U.S. Flag with the 50 States.  Hence - the 50 stars flags.  For this achievement Bob Heft was honored in the White House by President Dwight Eisenhower.   However this is a separate story.  

Harvey D. Spaulding Jr., was born sometime between 1899 –1901.   On August 1, 1915, his father Harvey D. Spaulding Sr., drowned in the Case River near Bridgeport MI while successfully rescuing Mrs. Joanna Hensler, a non-swimmer.  Harvey Jr. was at the time a student at the historical Arthur Hill High School and a member of the local Saginaw YMCA.  In 1917 Harvey Spaulding entered to serve the U.S army until the end of WWI.  

Upon his return to Saginaw MI he committed himself and his life work to the local YMCA Chapter.  He would teach every non-swimmer the basic skills of swimming at the YMCA facility and Saginaw school system.  He became a physical education instructor.  He designed classes for all local schools to have swimming training. Harvey Spaulding Jr., was recognized in 1933 by the YMCA Society of Physical Program Directors.

His local efforts in physical education and swimming bore evidence when on September 26, 1946, Harvey Spaulding Jr., was recognized by the Joint Navy and War Departments for his life work.  The citation was signed by the Commanding General of the U.S. Fifth Army.  

The immediate reason for the citation narrates that on “the Destroyer Escort vessel that was sunk by a Japanese diver bomber during action in the South pacific, thirty-four of the sixty survivors were from Saginaw. Thirty-two of those survivors were taught by Harvey D. Spaulding Jr.”

Sixty-five years ago, Harvey Spaulding Jr. was instrumental in opening the Toastmasters International Club 781 in the Saginaw YMCA in February 1950.  

On April 2, 1954, Toastmasters club 781 conferred on Harvey Spaulding a life membership.  It may be assumed that Harvey Spaulding passed away in 1966.  

 This post was excerpted from a report by Bob Heft based on the book titled “A Century of Service” by Crittenden & Smith pages 128-131.

© Mandy Lender 2015.

THE VISIONARY LEADER

A leadership vision is the ability to perceive the possibilities that are available to people, tribe, society or nation and create a novel picture of where the body of people will achieve and be in the future.

A vision is similar in its meaning to the synonymous terms – dream, image, or trance.   A vision is an idea!

A vision sets a clear, focused picture and direction that will take the society to a specific destination.

People are motivated to accomplish when they have a clear understanding of the purpose of a task or activity that promises some benefit to them.  The visionary leader provides this purpose and meaning by developing and sharing his vision and communicating by all means with his followers.

The message of the vision does not address details.  Everything that happens moves the organization or society in the direction of attracting the circumstances and manifesting the vision.

On August 28, 1963, Martin Luther King addressed the people assembled on the national mall in Washington DC where he proclaimed the prophetic words: “I have a dream.”  The speech was melodic, it was poetic and it is full of imagery.  As a result it moved the nation and Congress to enact the Civil Rights law.  King was a visionary leader – a Master Attractor - who accomplished his vision by the compelling power of his words.

On May 25, 1961, President John F Kennedy set before Congress a visionary goal to send a man to the moon and return him safe back to earth before the decade is over.  Congress approved and supported this vision.  The first man set his step on the moon on July 21, 1969. 

On June 12, 1987, President Ronald Reagan stood by the Brandenburg Gate in Berlin and decreed, “Mr. Gorbachev, tear down this wall.”  The Berlin Wall cracked open on November 9, 1989, without bloodshed.  Reagan is now a president revered by all political ideologues as the president who brought down the soviet empire without sending one soldier to battle.

What is happening when a visionary leader sets an objective?

Many fellow men and women see in their mind’s eye that same vision that the leader communicated and join forces to work together to assemble all the matching components, necessary to accomplish and manifest the objective.  Sometimes the idea takes hold in the mind of adversaries too as we saw how Reagan brought to its knees the soviet empire.

Lack of visionary leadership results in apathy and erosion of society.  As the Bible says: “Without vision people perish.”  (Prov. 23:18).  Every leader, regardless of their vision is a Master Attractor.  They attract their followers by the powers of the mind.

    © 2013 Mandy Lender

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Who Is an Ethicist?

A person who makes it his business to allocate the blame to others in a manner that seems fair to him.

INVEST IN TOASTMASTERS MONEY MAGAZINE SUGGESTS

Money Magazine in its October 2012 issue (p. 70) has a collage article titled: “WHAT TO DO WITH $1,000 NOW!”

Among other investment ideas it suggests: “Polish your presentation skills.  Knowing how to effectively communicate ideas to your boss and clients can expand and extend your career.”

So with whom would invest the tuition money for public speaking training?

The writer starts with… $775 to a course run by the National Speakers Association.  Next they suggest: Join Toastmasters International ($192 a year) to learn the art of making witty impromptu remarks.  And next, pay a private speaking coach.  

I enthusiastically support with the idea that training in public speaking is a wonderful investment that keeps on giving.  But the writer is giving bad financial advice when it comes to facts and figures.   The NSA is not a place for beginners. 

The place to start is your nearest Toastmasters’ Club.  The nominal annual membership fee is around $100 or less, split in installments.   And no - Toastmasters is not about making witty remarks.  It’s about making short, impactful business and teaching presentations like sales presentations or stump speeches on your feet if you dream to run for election to PTA or any elected public office. 

So, if I had only one Grand to invest I’ll invest one tenth of it in Toastmasters International.

  © 2013 Mandy Lender MD