Major realisation, we all see ourselves as the victim. We need to fucking stop it, we can see ourselves as the one who nobody understands or cares about, but guess what? Not true, not true at all. I just read this:
"The questions I get asked the most are about how I am feeling. “How do I feel?” “Are you okay?” I don’t think people were ever asking the right question. The question I always asked during this time was “Is she okay?” “How does she feel?”. Maybe I cared too much. Maybe she never saw that, and probably still doesn’t. I forgave you for what you’ve done, but it still hurts. And asking “why” lead to “how” and lead to “did you ever”
Did you ever love me? Did you ever care?
Pointless questions right now. People ask me, “could you ever be back with her?” And my answer is: ___
Story of my life right now"
Written by my ex, talking about me. I was feeling the same way at one point in our relationship. We need to stop making eachother feel this way
