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The Courage to Make a U-Turn—Determination

Making a big life decision is not going to be easy. Sometimes people are going to think that you are not making the best choices in life when the choices are made abruptly. However, things in our lives happen where we will need to make hard decisions in hopes of greater achievements, if not in the interest of survival.

What’s important is that we have the determination to pursue our dreams and goals. Determination is needed when we face different turning points in our lives. Whether it’s ending a relationship, moving back home, or quitting a promising job, life changes are always going to be difficult. Just remember—ambition and goals change, so the paths we take also change.

Determination is needed to make a change. On the other hand, a dramatic turnaround could also be misinterpreted as you admitting defeat. But this shouldn’t hinder you from achieving your goals.

Mistakes from the past may also stop us from making tough decisions. Also, it’s hard to admit mistakes. In some cases, we just wallow in self-pity and continue living life filled with regrets. But nothing good comes out of discouragements and giving up. What we can do is only to continue trying.

At times, the fear of making a wrong decision can keep us from progressing. Just remember that not everyone gets things right on their first time. Also, making a move is better than doing nothing at all. Courage is important to overcome the fear of failure, but determination will be your drive to put one foot in front of the other, to grasp a clear picture of your goals, and to be your strength against doubt.

In making U-turns in life, just be reminded that complex thinking is important. Always think about the pros and cons of a decision before doing so. Ask yourself first if it will be advantageous to you and to others. We sometimes think that what we’re doing is right because it is what benefits us most, without thinking if it could hurt or disadvantage others.

For every decision, also consider long-term consequences. Every day we make decisions, like choosing to ride a cab or bus, or getting espresso or latté—these decisions could still impact the way we live our lives. Every calorie of what we eat counts. Every extra buck spent on taxi rides will affect our budget. Still, it’s up to you to hit the gym. It’s up to you to accept that highly coveted managerial offer. It’s up to you to eat a large burrito. Just be confident with your decisions and never regret them. You don’t need to explain or justify the decisions you make for your life, unless it gravely affects others.

The most fulfilled and successful life is not the one done in ease and quiet. Life is a constant struggle, and you won’t know what you want unless you think hard about it. There may be hardships but, with that, we become stronger individuals. With courage, we overcome trials; with determination, we can continue moving forward.

 Sources

http://leapforwardcoach.com/make-a-u-turn/