#make things clear

I am only saying this because it seems it needs to be said.

I respect how others ship. I also respect if others aren’t into shipping.

When a creator expresses that the fandom doesn’t use THEIR own design for a ship type and nsfw content. I would respect that.

No they don’t own the characters, but they own their own art style of said characters. To ignore that, is highly disrespectful to the art creator’s request. It is totally okay to make your own design without copying another.

There is plenty of blog that are inspired by another artist content and have made their own looks for those characters, but not copying that persons design.

On another note on this, ship who you want to ship, or don’t, but just be respectful in not tagging it based of that creators design. They may have specific canon ships for their creation. For example Link/Malon and Sun/Sky. The rest are unknown or just don’t have someone as of yet. To “it’s complicated”. Be respectful of other people’s ships as well. You may not like a ship or particular to a ship. You don’t need to rip each other part over someone not sharing the same ship from your own.

It makes for a toxic environment and that the last thing the Creator is wanting to do. The fandom should feel like a safe place for everyone. However the moment someone goes after another, it becomes a place where nobody feels they can enjoy it. Share your ship, but without calling another out as their ship is wrong. Also if someone is not into shipping, respect that. They are as valid as those who do. Not everything is about putting characters in a relationship. Sometimes it’s about the bonding of found family trying to solve what has brought them together and to once again save the world.

I know I may get flax for this. But I am growing tired of people disrespecting a content creator’s request on their work. Along with people being toxic towards each other within the fandom. Though this no new thing among fandoms. It makes it really hard to enjoy a fandom when people are unwilling to read or listen to a request by the artist request of not doing certain things. (That also goes for nsfw content as well. Don’t be quick to assume that a person is implying something which isn’t)

There are plenty of AUs out there that may better fit what someone is into with their own design and not copying another. Along with open to ship style.

Finally, read tags. The tags are there for a reason. To help you as a viewer to know what is or isn’t something. We don’t need to clutter other fandoms that aren’t connect to another. Also read the main content creators archives and about part. It can really help you know what their blog is about and often will explain to those as a viewer know their requests and story.

(Kind of excludes Math and Science, unfortunately there’s no stopping that fuckery)

1. “There’s so much information that your heads will explode by the end of the semester.” (Sometimes followed up with ‘and you’ll love it.’ As a full time student. No we don’t)

2. “I know you have other classes but this is important.” (And other classes aren’t? No. People have grade based scholarships.)

3. “I know it’s difficult and there’s a lot but if you just stay caught up you’ll be fine.” (It’s an online course, people take more than one? Outside life exists? Wow what’s it like to be able to say what the issue is and then have a half baked solution.)

I still wanna chit chat with you, wanna be the one that you feel comfortable to talk shit with, or complain, tell jokes. I still wanna come over your house and play around with you, or doing nothing but watching you playing your guitar. I was there, ready to listen to all of your shit. I was there, spent time with you because i think you deserved, and i was happy too.

Many goddamn time, i wondered why i was nhạt as fvck but you still hanged out with me. Many goddamn time i look at you and i think that you’re super cute, super cool, super annoying in your own way, super lắng nhắng, super sâu xa phức tạp. And fvck you, i dont feel like being bother so why tf you think that you’re bothering me? You are my friend and it’s truly you, i’m happy that you feel comfortable to talk about every damn shit in this world to me. BUT no, you pushed me away from you that time. I was seriously worried about you, i was thinking too much if it was because of me. Agh!!

Anyway, i’m here to tell you that i finally get over from the concept being-pushed-away-suprisingly-without-saying-nothing.I’m now not sad, not happy, just a little bit mad. That’s it. And yea i dont wanna talk to you, i wanna you and i talk to each other. But if you dont want to, it’s okay. I’m good.

Btw, with you or without you, i’m still trying my best to be better than yesterday.