#love relations

-The refrigerator mother theory-

Refrigerator mother theory is a theory that autism is caused by a lack of maternal warmth. Current research indicates that genetic factors are suspected in the cause of autism by Fabrizio Catalfamo Origins of theory In his 1943 paper that first identified autism, Leo Kanner called attention to what appeared to him as a lack of warmth among the mothers of autistic children. In a 1949 paper,…

When we get sick we become old-fashioned, when we let go of the new ways, that’s when we decline. We cannot survive clinging to sunsets, the contented gaze of habits does not keep us in step with changes. And then it takes a wake-up call to overcome laziness and take up the challenge, it is a matter of overcoming what we have been, going beyond the idea we have of ourselves but the question is:…

I hate you because you love me By F. Guzzardi Today’s relationships are often destructive and they have one thing in common: breaking them can be very difficult! In fact, even when the love is long gone, one of the two partners may decide to continue the relationship because she or his afraid of the other’s reactions, and they can even reach threats or suicide attempts or, the classic revenge,…

The broadening of consciousness

Love or emotional dependence?Love is something that will never cease to amaze us, it is iridescent, elusive, it is a changing and unpredictable feeling. Love is a mystery and to reveal what a mystery is is an impossible task or at least an ambitious undertaking; because the affective relationship implies a dimension of intersubjectivity, of continuous exchange between two human beings that is…

by F. Guzzardi How far can a narcissist man or woman go, how far can he go in the name of passion? Let’s start by saying that the psyche is what makes us individuals, that is, unique and particular, and it is our task to understand this psychological uniqueness. The tools we have at our disposal are the inner gaze, empathy, our sensitivity, including fantasy.the psychological experience is such…

by F. Guzzardi The language of the manipulator, with its half-truths. The manipulator’s language is recognized because it often resorts to analogies that are cleverly used to induce the victim to trample on their own ethical principles. These are not correct, because they resort to improper similes and metaphors which, do not stand up as they are forced comparisons that have logical errors at…

–By F. Guzzardi– What beliefs do, the certainties of the mind? Well, they prevent our ongoing wisdom, from healing us; sometimes we expect something to change in our life, we think about it and almost always we end up filling ourselves with guilt, we end up looking more than anything else, the things that have not gone well and we are convinced that, our existence is all useless. It will always…