im really shit at comforting people like so insanely shit I usually just make it worse by being to blunt or not knowing what to say or I sound really empty but ive kinda figured something out
When someone is upset and theres nothing I can do about it I just try to distract them. It works really well, and i dont mean like loudly or overwhelmingly just really simple things
Do they like talking about themselves? Ask them a bunch of light hearted or fun questions, do they like to rant about other things? Ask them about their favorite movie or video games plot or some facts about a subject they like.
If they dont find it annoying you can just yapping at them or tell a story but it doesn't always work the best, if your able to putting on a TV show or some music can work but I think ive found tv works better than music as a distraction
The only other thing I know of is to just be patient and listen to the person and be accommodating
Idk these are things I've learned from experience and its alot better than just staring at someone or making everything worse
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Im so scared right now… apparently the people who made my schedule, out of ALL OF THE OTHER CLASSES they could’ve sent me to, they sent me to early childhood education, which I heard is one of the most INSUFFERABLE classes in the entire school. Me and my mom tried changing out of it by switching me to the ceramics class but there were NO SLOTS for me… I tried filling out the same form I used to get myself into that class but I can’t get back in. I want to get out of the class as soon as possible and I do not have much time left until school starts again. Im not ready to have sleepless nights doing work that was written by ChatGPT, spend $100 just for that class, and go back to THOSE DAYS where it just feels like that life ain’t really worth it no more…
lovely mood!!! (this is a nonsensical rant about my day, I was feeling nice.)
This is very long. It's eight paragraphs. Akechi from Saiki K ass rant.
i'm in a good mood. I was in a cleaning mood and I cleaned my bathroom, my closet and I cleaned my bedroom partially. prior to that I played solitaire with my nice card deck (only one of the queens are damaged) for an hour and a half by the fireplace. being very close to a fire for a long period of time made me feel a bit ill, but it was all goods because I got fresh air and I felt alright after a while.
I had chicken stew for dinner. I love soups and stews, they're my favourite kind of meals because they're easy to eat and make everything taste nice. Even vegetables that I usually couldn't eat because they taste weird like pumpkin and kumara, they taste really nice when put into soup. Maybe that's because the soup changes the texture by making it very soft and the soup broth changes the flavour a little.
Speaking of kumara, I don't like it because it looks deceptively like potato without its skin but then when I eat it expecting potato, I suddenly get attacked with sweetness that I wasn't anticipating. Kumara tastes like a sweet that's gone off or slightly spoiled flavoured milk but vegetable. I just realized that I randomly changed from not capitalizing my sentences to capitalizing my sentences the middle of my second paragraph.
I think that's because I'm in a good mood and I have a lot of energy. Usually when I'm writing online, I'm tired and lazy or I'm in a sour mood; but right now I'm in a good mood, so I have enough energy to capitilize the correct things and type more things. That's weird because it's nearly eleven at night. Actually that's not weird because I usually get spikes of motivation and energy in the evenings and that energy usually carries on until around midnight. It's very useful and I usually do things such as cleaning, chores and partaking in my hobbies during that time period. It isn't very convenient though, I'm supposed to be sleeping and I might disturb other people sleeping with my evening activities.
This year has been funny, it's been darastically different for me. This year I was put into a class with none of my friends and only one other person that I made regular conversation with, a long with a few classmates from my prior homeroom class that I'm not close enough with to speak with unless I need to for working. Because I usually rely on friends to get friends or just hope there's someone that ends up sticking beside me, I haven't really made any friends in my class. Now I don't really mind that, I'm usually too focused on doing work to talk to people in classes at all really. It isn't a very big deal for me, but it's funny to me because in other years I've always had a close friend beside me talking my ear off. It was good background noise.
The other funny thing is that my preferred classes have changed! Usually my favorite is English and it's also the subject I've always done best at. This year however, I don't like English very much. It's boring and tiresome, it's repetitive and drags on. The teacher uses AI for everything. I'm talking assignments, marking our work, slideshows, encourages US the STUDENTS to use it for our work and it annoys me because it makes me feel like I'm being forced to be incompetent. I love working but I'm being forced to hold back. In the usual normal work, I'm already bored but then in English it's ten times worse. It's horrible! I'm constantly and completely restless! I don't even put effort into my English work because it bores me so much.
Then it's made worse because the AI that created the work I'm doing is stupid and gets facts completely wrong. I have two examples of this. There was this task based of an article the author of a novel we had read in class had wrote. In the article the author talked about the book, the worries they had creating the book and their own personal experiences that influenced the story of the book. The task was supposed to be a few basic questions about the article, very simple, should take no longer than fifteen minutes even I was slacking off. Spent nearly half an hour on it being pissed off. I don't know what the AI that created the work had thought of the article, but based off of the questions it was clear that the AI had thought that the article was fictional.
Fictional! Do you know how I knew? One of the questions "How does the character (THE AUTHOR'S ACTUAL AUNTIE?????) appearance tell us about them?" Hey. So That's A Real Life, Actual, Proper, Alive And Living Person. This annoyed me so much I don't think I even finished that task. Anywho. I've forgotten the second example, I may come back and put it in when I remember. I'm tired now. I'm going to wind down for the night. I'll see you all later, goodbye!
I dont know whats wrong with me. I thought I had it all figured out. And maybe I do. Maybe it is just autism and depression. But it feels like something is missing.
The summer absolutely fucked with my head and I dont think theres been a single day Ive felt good the whole day. I'm annoyed with myself.
Literally everything Ive ever struggled with internally has only gotten worse because I just feel like I really cannot get help and I'm too scared to try.
My derealisation and depersonalization have gotten so so terrible I literally almost never feel real. I overthink every little thing to the utmost extreme like how it makes absolutely no fucking sense in the slightest how humans and anything living and literally anything at all exist. I don't believe in any religions cuz it's just bullshit to help cope with the same thing I'm struggling with. If I stare at anything for more than 10 seconds I immediately lose all sense of reality. Even typing this right now feels unreal. How does ANYTHING exist?? It makes absolutely no sense. I think the human species has become too conscious and aware. Or maybe thats just me. I don't know.
Ive noticed I only enjoy my hobbies less as time goes on. I still sometimes enjoy art but it gets really really frustrating when it doesn't look the way I want it to. I'm so angry all the time. I always want to rip the pages. I throw things a lot. I punch my head. It doesn't do anything for me and I'm just left with regret cuz I break things a lot. Both my favourite cups are broken because of me. I miss those cups. I always ruin what good I have. Especially relationships. Not romantic, but just in general. Every time I get a good friend I manage to fuck it up. Every time we have an argument or falling out it's always my fault.
I hate having a body. I don't like it even a little. I don't mean in the like insecure way, but looking at myself makes me angry. This stupid human body. FEMALE body. It's hell. Existing like this makes me angry . I try to not be pessimistic and enjoy life to the most of my ability but I always end up spiraling back down into this little hole. One day I'll say I'm gonna dress up how I want and not let anyone get to me, but then the next I get terrified someone will make fun of me and just wear the same boring shit. I'm wasting my life away and not doing any of the things I want to do but I don't know HOW. I really don't. I don't understand. There's so much i wanna do so im not wasting my time but then when given the chance to do them I get so mentally exhausted and just give up before even trying. It's pathetic.
I don't know what I want to do. My whole life ive told myself I'm not gonna make it past 21. But now I think I probably will. One thing I know for sure is I really don't want to grow old. I'm not gonna talk about that though because even the thought makes me really upset.
I'm so insanely displeased with the way I'm currently going about life and I genuinely dont know what I can do. Every time I think about getting help I just can't. I wish I had friends. I want people who care about me. I really want friends. A found family. Anything. I just want people who care about me. I feel so so alone. Insanely alone. Even when surrounded by people it's not enough. I want people I have a bond with. But Id probably just ruin that too.
TEEN BEACH MOVIE IS MY FAVORITE AND IT KINDA SUCKS this is how I would make it better
btw i was motivated by a man who said he liked this movie but claimed Mack was lame and "everyone's least favorite character" and I couldn't be more offended. that's my girl right there. and she's doing her best. so.
why it sucks: The movie attempts to tackle two different issues, only fully addressing one, thinking it is better than other movies, while also not taking itself too seriously. The overarching theme is an embracing of youth and fun, to not take yourself too seriously else lose out. The secondary theme is girls can be independent and have interests besides men. These are two really good themes, but the movie fails to bring them together. Instead, it focused on the first while practically discarding the second when it gets in the way of the plot. Genuinely the first half of this movie is *almost* perfect and then it kinda falls apart at iknowwhatgirlslikegirlslikeboyslikeme and the feminism feels more like a bit and less like an actual stance.
the best lesson of Teen Beach Movie, for a girl, is that you do not need to be put together all the time. You are young and deserve to have fun, and you should never let expectations stop you from doing that. I don't feel like explaining feminist theory, but there's a duality going on.
It is incredibly important for young girls to be told 1) you can have ambitions. but also 2) it's ok to immature, you do not always need to perfect.
A huge issue with why Teen Beach Movie fails to present its feminist message is that the main propellant of that message, Mack, is the antagonist of the story. She refuses to embrace the absurdity of everything, when she really needs to let the movie run its course. This presents many issues for feminist message. Most glaringly, the antagonist being a strong woman, who somewhat drops her stance by the end to be more unserious, makes the feminist message also seem like the enemy. There is also the opportunity to use it to denounce actual, good feminist takes by telling girls to just have fun/it's not that serious. Mack's preoccupation with being mature gets conflated with her feminist stance; She thinks she is better than the movie, both in maturity (not singing) and in social awareness (the girls should have interests outside of girls). Thus, by denouncing one, the other is taken down with it. (I also want to note that girls generally mature faster than boys, and it just feels wrong to villainize that. Dare I say, male gaze?)
I don't love that all of Mack's negative pressures come from women (Aunt/deadMom) while the positive ones come from men (Brady/Grandpa). Specifically, Brady's immaturity comes off as shaming Mack for having ambitions that she states are her own. Whether or not Mack is making her decision independently, the people in her life should support her decision.
Mack cannot control the societal pressures around her to grow up and take herself seriously, so her development must be framed as an internal rejection of pressures, not a moral failing on her for "being lame"
this ended up being very long. here is part 2 and part 3
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the demonization of periods is genuinely so insane to me like wdym u get scared of ur sister when she gets her period?? like what does that mean genuinely. and telling me ur younger sister is still young and innocent and ur scared for the day she's not anymore like. she's not gonna grow horns and a tail as soon as she gets her period bro periods are NOT that deep and ok u not being weird abt them is ok whatever but thinking ur quirky for saying "the day my sisters sync up is a day ik I need to spend locked in my room" like they suddenly turn into rabid beasts or something as if people who have periods are werewolves who shed their skin once a month it's such a bad way of thinking bro like instead of caring for them and asking if they're ok if the pain is too much if they need painkillers or food or anything you choose to think of them as monsters who raid ur house like idk that's just so stupid to me periods are NORMAL and people on their period are NORMAL and they can do anything they can do even when they're not on their period. period =/= weakness
I've noticed this like yesterday but didnt get a single chance to yap it all out so, well, im doing it now!! (regarding the Season 14 trailer of Gabby's Dollhouse)
(keeping it spoilered since it's pretty long and i wanna make it easier to those who wanna scroll past this. yes im a yapper so what.)
SOO YES YES GABBY'S DOLLHOUSE SEASON 14 TRAILER WAS OUT HAHEHAHHA YES IM SO HYPED WHAT. The whole Doozie thing is kinda off to me for now (since i have a fear of it replacing GDH. if the spinoff will happen which i hope not. gulps), but the rest of the aspects: im okay with it yeah!! heheh so excited,,, omgomg we're finally fed with gabby cat content after months,,,
At that same day i also decided to look into the S14 trailer deeper and discovered that the trailer includes clips from (possibly) 2-3 episodes. Obviously, the most noticeable is Doozie's first appearance in the show (+ Puggie) yeah yeah pretty obvious indeed. I have nothing to say about that episode im js hoping it'll be a decent episode is all
And apparently, in the trailer, we can ALSO see that we could POTENTIALLY get a birthday episode for DJ, because of like 1-3 clips in the trailer (IF THIS IS TRUE I AM SO SAT OMGOMGOOGMGOMGOMG HEHEH GOMGOGMOMGOMG)
(analysis of ONE single screenshot below because i am NOT a casual GDH fan,,,)
PLEASE DREAMWORKS I NEED THIIIIISSSSUHHHH..,,.. PLEAAAAASSSEEEUHH..,, I LOVE BIRTHDAY EPISODES BTW OHH IM A SUCKER FOR THEMM..
(^^ and these 2 screenshots specifically could also be apart of the same eps as the one above-- that, or a different episode. there's many possibilities...)
Other than that we also get a cool glimpse of the doghouse's kitchen,,,.. now i wonder if Gabby's dollhouse and Doozie's doghouse are like connected to each other (NO i do NOT mean franchise wise (duh)-- i mean it in a way that there's some kind of path that connects the 2 structures so they can js visit the other dollhouse whenever they wanna yk what i mean. but hey that's just a theory...,)
looks pretty colorful compared to Gabby's. idk man, i have nothing to say for this one LMAO. well if i were to, CreamPup's introduction could either be in the same episode when we first meet Doozie or a different one (since GDH tends to have more than one episode centering a season's main theme, could be wrong tho so take it with a grain of salt)
In conclusion i am GEHHGHEIRHE SOO SO HYPED IM GENUINELY HOPING IT'S A PEAK SEASON AND GRHHRHREHRHAHAHAHAHA IM HOPING FOR MORE MARTY SCREENTIME BECAUSE. BECAUSE I JS LOVE MARTY. I AM HIS #1 FAN ALRIGHT SHHHH I HAVE THE RIGHTS TO BE DELUSIONAL. (he's got unfair treatment past season..,,. S14 could be the time he shines more..,,). Also hoping for conflicts within the episodes, i love seeing the conflicts that happen it helps me understand the character more and stuffs.,.., i can go on but i'll stop it here <3 ty for taking the time to read my yappings!!
