(1/2) Hello. First of I love this blog and it helped me so much in finding out I was asexual, which made life easier, which I thank all of you for. The thing is, I never really understood my romantic orientation. I find my self finding people of the opposite sex romantically attractive one day, then the same gender as I am the next, or both, or neither, or I don't really care. This was never a problem but some events have really pushed this in my face. Though I've only ever really "liked" a
(2/2) (last word was "a") handful of people. I am so sorry to trouble you with this mess. I completely understand if you can't find a term or an explanation for my seemingly over the edge romantic orientation. Thank you. Please tag loiap.
It sounds like you might be grayromantic, since the circumstances you feel romantic attraction in are confusing and there is no clear pattern. It doesn't sound to me like you're entirely alloromantic, but you also don't sound aromantic either, so that middle ground seems best. How does that feel to you?
Also, please remember in the future that there are more than two genders and sexes and none of them are opposites, and that sex and gender are different things. More inclusive language would be "people of same and different genders."Β
-Kiowa














