#lifeofasinglemom

Turns out a family member accidentally pulled a wire out of the furnace at some point and instead of telling me this- they just decided to keep it to themself. Oh well, now we have a fancy thermostat that I can control and lock so that a certain family member can’t turn it up to 90 degrees- go get a blanket! 😜

I know that I bitch a lot on here, but it’s days like today that for no particular reason I realize how lucky I am to have a good job, a roof over my head and food to feed my children. Somehow even though I am divorced, my ex and I are doing something right bc BOTH of our kids are straight A students, they’re both in the National Honor Society, they both play school and club ball, and my son is a lifeguard and works his ass off. They may both be shits at times, but what 18 & 14 year olds aren’t?

I may not be where I want to be in life, but I’ll get there- I know it. Gotta get through the rough patches to appreciate the rewards right?

Its been awhile, oh this feels nostalgic, i remember back around early 2000's tumblr is so popular most specially to highschool students that are frustrated ' bloggers' and i am one of those (LOL). with the little penny from my allowance i try to go to an internet cafe and make my tumblr page look pretty... thats was one of my childhood memory and 23years later here i am again writing a new blog about my self and how i am trying to survive life. life have been tough for me for the past years but i still consider my self lucky for all gods favor that he showered to me...

What Is It About Marrying Single Mothers?

Some people have held my past choices against me. I’ve heard someone have the nerve to tell me my past was checkered. Not that that wasn’t an accurate statement but I was confused.  They spoke of my past like they didn’t have one and I was convicted of murder in the first degree. A checkered pastis one that involves periods of time that were good and periods of time that were bad. So why are…

Sis, This Is Why Your “Baby Daddy” Is Avoiding You

The way that Black Men continue to justify them abandoning their children paralyzes our community entirely. The “Single Mother” is always the one that is blamed when these men walk away from their children only out of convenience for them. When my son’s father contacted me (from work) , during my 5th month of pregnancy, to tell me he wanted to get back with his ex and that he didn’t want our baby…

The Hunt: Single Mothers Try To Trap The Childless Man

(YouTuber & Singer, Queen Naija seen above. After her divorce from Chris Sails she met her now boyfriend Clarence who she just conceived a child with. She rose to fame after releasing her song “Medicine” that was about her failed marriage with Chris Sails.)

There are a lot of ridiculous things on the internet if you haven’t noticed. I see more ignorance on here than I do in the ghettoest…