Reminder to all of my gaydies and gentlethems, if the way you identify changes, you are not feeding into the toxicity of the phrase “it’s just a phase” because there is nothing wrong with phases! Change is good, and the way we understand ourselves is allowed to change! When I was 10, I thought I wanted to be a marine biologist, now I am working towards an art history degree, but I don’t look back and think “ew how could I have done that” because it was something I was excited about, and that was good! We are allowed to change and we are not chained to our understanding of our sexuality!















