#leavie

can we stop with the ‘not all sterek shippers are like that’.

if you’re not all like that then where the fuck are you when individual sterek shippers attack and harass people?

where are you when sterek shippers are being racist?

I’m the one who’s supposed to go scream after every single person of the damn fandom because they’re acting like morons and let myself insulted as a racist for words I don’t even know, about racist posts I don’t even know is making me complicit? 

In what world are you even living? 

It’s not ignoring if you don’t even know it, most of the time I’m the one going to people’s ask and saying to them they’re actually making something wrong and talk with them.

If I disagree with someone, I don’t feel the need to generalize an entire fandom and put every single person of that said fandom in the same bag just because I feel like it.

I have nothing to prove to anyone, if I have a problem with people, I discuss with them, I’m not whining, I’m just stating a fact. 

I will never accept to be insulted as being complicit by any form of racism, and it actually angers me so much. 

And even if I’m whining, what’s wrong about it? I have every right to be pissed of, every 3 weeks there is a new drama with this fandom, I swear to God, this is just crazy, and yes like I said previously ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.

You don’t even know that it kind of hurt some people when you’re making those dumb generalizations. 

“Sitting back and ignoring problematic behavior makes you complicit whether you like it or not. Dealing with queer fetishization, racism and erasure is far, far worse than people thinking most fans sailing this ship are creepers.”

Like I said, dumb generalizations, most of the shippers aren’t creepers or have a “queer fetishization”. 

I really love how you're continuing to make this about your feelings. When actual people are dealing with real-world marginalizations. If you care more about being called racist than about telling people what they're doing is racist, you're a bad person, full stop.

You're telling me I don't know about how generalized nations her when I'm talking about racism, sexism, and queer fetishzation. Do you understand how that makes you look? It makes you seem much more concerned about how the fandom is seen  than about how people of color and/or queer people of our scene despite the fact that generalizations about us get us killed.

The problems isn't crazy fans like you keep saying. I happen to have several mental health issues, yet I'm able to avoid erasing queer people of color, using gross gender essentialist justifications for my ship or using sexist slurs. It has nothing to do with mental health and everything to do with striving to be a decent human being.