#listentounderstand #learntoevolve Repost from @davidgoggins Your entitled mind is dead weight! A lot of us are asking and looking for help before we even help ourselves. A lot of people are looking for a handout before they put in the work. We believe we are entitled to things, deserve things and have earned things. A lot of us think we are working much harder than we actually are. We believe if we put in a good solid week of work, we ate all of the right foods for a few days, we studied diligently for our exams, etc., that means we have earned victory and should reap the rewards! While there is nothing wrong with asking for help, you first have to make sure that you have put in all of the hard work and exhausted all options on your own. You have to be willing to go the extra step and put in the extra work. If you are the person asking how to lose weight while sitting on the couch...if you want to go Harvard and have the grades but not the extra curricular activities to separate your application from the rest...or maybe you want to start for your high school basketball team but failed to go to summer conditioning (like I did!), you fall into the category of those people who put in a half-assed effort and expect to be rewarded. Most people asking for help know exactly what the fuck they need to do and that answer usually is simply...work harder! (at New Jersey) https://www.instagram.com/p/B7bOlTNFMvwxlpOQNa4MmRJCrOdEQCYy3K7uUQ0/?igshid=akzgopzvaj88