So basically here's how I think about relationships: I want to be bros w all my bros. no romantic things implied no crushes zilch. Then one day I want to meet a bro and chill w him for a while and say "you know what I like you more than my others bros so how bout we go to my house or your house and watch some horror films and drink hot cocoa while talking about stuff" and people will think of us to be "dating" but we'll still be bros so one day if we realize we don't like doing the other things w each other (ie the smooching and the hand holding) then we can say "hey ya know I'm not feeling that spark no more so lets just be regular bros again" and if course we'll be sad for a little but then we'll eat pizza together and we'll be totes rad again I wish everyone just had that mindset
