F/o's with autistic selfshippers. Letting their touch hover just above your skin, never touching until you explicitly say it's okay, and not taking it to heart if or when you say no. Doing their best to manage sensory input you can't handle, apologising when a light is just too bright, gesturing to a quieter area when people are just too loud, buying air freshners to try and chase away smells you can't stand, steering you away from the sink when you have to clean out a drink that's just the wrong colour. Reminding you to eat, even if you don't feel hungry, because you don't need to be going hungry to sustain yourself. They don't mind repeating phrases or waiting for you to process what you hear when you're discussing something. They don't think you're stupid or careless for your struggle with motor skills, and will happily take over tasks you find your hands too stubborn to work on.