#kelyes

They keep spoiling us. ♥

I saw some one post in response “pretty shitty of her friend to discuss her personal life on instagram” THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE DOING. this woman is defending her friend, just as most likely you would do upon seeing harassment, whether prompt by that friend or not it is clear you are getting to these people and that isn’t right. This isn’t a game of sims where you get to control the lives of these people. It’s pot calling the kettle black, and you. a stranger. are partaking in discussing the relationship status of another stranger.

I get it people, you love the concept, the idea of two actors who are co-workers as a couple- irreverent of whether that has come to or ever been of fruition. They have great chemistry and clearly enjoy spending time with one another which is brilliant... 

But how cute a couple they would make?.. it is one thing to discuss it on your account and among friends.. But to take it directly to those people...it’s wrong. These are real people with real lives and who have real feelings but you don’t know them. 

You can watch hours of interviews and days of their work...But you. don’t. know. them. and you don’t get to passive aggressively shove your ideological and surface level assessed desires in there faces. Complete strangers commenting and discussing their personal life, Tagging them in comments!!!...can you not imagine what it does to these people and their friends to read such things??? guilty for not appeasing those who keep them employed and support their work? hurt  that people who supposedly love this person as an individual and the work they do, look to tell them that they are wrong to not be with the person of whom numbers of “fans” have decided they should be and attacking other relationships they have- romantic or platonic and are speculating between the two??? Embarrassed? Tired by it? upset? frustrated? self conscious?  you love BTS pics? well can you imagine the scrutiny and contemplation that they might be subject themselves to before posting it? do you really want these people worrying and feel anxiety over what might be read into it? or said? if it might spark an attack on another person? No one should have to be anxious over posting the capturing of a happy moment in fear of  strangers reactions, to feel they are stuck in a constant state of judgement or scrutiny from people who supposedly like them??

 Why do people think that just because actors open a portion of their lives to their fans through social media (Which is a privilege not a right) fans then have the right to berate and speculate?? what ever happened to just posting something positive like “hey, looking cute” or “love that shirt” or “gosh your so funny” or “glad you are enjoying time off”...why does it have to get personal. 

If one of them gets married to someone else are you going to berate, disrespect, compare or belittle them too? will they be victim to hate and scrutiny as well????

If two people are happy as they decide...and if they are happy with other people, who are you to disagree just because you sit on the other side of a computer screen 1000+ miles from them and have poured over and taken to pieces images and videos of these people, so of course you know what is best and you just have to tell them...I mean is it really a wonder that the likes of Eddie Kaye Thomas doesn’t have social media when he sees what his co-workers and friends put up with??? 

It’s actually quite saddening to see. If accounts are shut down I really wouldn’t blame them. 

Maybe i’m alone in this belief or maybe because i’m looking at this objectively and from their side of things...but really why do you care and why are their characters not enough...really why??