#katblr

we have anonymous people sending suicide threats to writers for simply existing (katseyeluv). yet you have the fucking audacity to say you want a better community, but turn around the minute we ask you to back up what you say.

because the minute the conversation becomes serious you hide, because you can just say that you want better community so no one bats an eye, but when we ask you to speak up? you stay silent. choosing not to engage because it feels safe.

i am truly so tried of seeing good writers deactivate or just stop posting cause of the toxicity.

i honestly think that the fact the ppl think its ok to fuck with and pick on all of the incredibly talented writers on here is fucking crazy. ive first hand seen ppl ive considered my friends on here deactivate and literally leave the fucking fandom because of how bad the hate got. and i know most of you guys are awesome kind ppl, trust me ive seen it as ive gotten to know a lot of you guys.

but to all of the anons who are sending relentless hate to writers on here does it ever actually occur to you that there is another person on the receiving of your words or are you just oblivious to how other ppl feel and that you might be making them lose a love they held for a something they loved.

i genuinely dont think it's that hard to just be kind. yk i think it actually harder to find something to hate about someone then it is to find one small thing to compliment them about. its so easy to hold a hand out to another person and just say a few words. you might not know but even a simple compliment could make someones day or stop them from doing something life changing. i think that there are so many awesome ppl here on katsblr and if we reach out a little more we can build such a great community.

i lowkey feel like im js spit balling but what im trying to say is that i dont wanna just sit here and do nothing as i see blog after blog deactivate. that wouldn't be right. im going to do this and you hope you guys consider doing it to, im going to js start taking some more time to get to know more ppl on here. i know it might not be much and i know that there are other blogs saying to do this too but i think the more we spread this msg the better. set a goal to just send a kind msg in someones inbox. whether it's once a day, week or even a month. just try and i think even the smallest of things would make a difference.

thank you to every kind person who has talked to me on here and made me feel like my silly little page was something worth keeping. and thank you to @operationship and @friendshipgamesofficial for being the projects that are trying to build this community. love you guys sm!

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