We saw the Norman Rockwell exhibition tonight, who doesn't love his Saturday Evening Post paintings? That man was ridiculously talented. Art is cool. Then we bought milk, made blueberry muffins, and we're watching The Goldberg's and cuddling ✨ #kamandruth #datenight (at Brigham Young University Museum of Art)

Admiring Jack Frost, reciting Robert Frost, and dreams about the future. Winter always makes the world feel the most magical, and anything is possible because when there's glitter falling from the sky, anything can happen. #kamandruth #KEMgram❤️ #winterlove

Time to put up the tree 🎄 It's about to get twinkly up in the place ✨ #kamandruth

Sometimes I worry when I see “romantic” nonsense circling about the interwebz, especially when the ideas are as toxic as what I’ve been seeing lately. Words that boast of love being about having each other memorized and being able to read the other person’s mind. In theory, I guess I can see how the idea that the one you love knows you so well that you don’t even have to speak for them to know what’s in your mind, or in your heart, but in reality that’s the least romantic thing I can think of, not to mention an insane notion to base “true love” on. True love is a choice, in fact, it’s a series of choices. It doesn’t magically fall into your arms, and it isn’t easy. The basis of a good relationship is communication, so the idea that real love doesn’t need words is just not true. And how boring would love be if the other person always knew exactly what you wanted, or what you felt? To me here’s nothing more beautiful and comforting than the tight hug that follows the duel of apologies after Kameron and I have any size of disagreement due to the fact that WE CANNOT READ EACH OTHER’S MINDS. Because we are human people, and expecting someone to know what you want from them without your input, no matter how well they know you, or how much they love you is just unrealistic and unhealthy. If you’re in search of true love, you ought to roll up your sleeves, jusssayin’. #kamandruth #postsonthereal