jinkimbap replied to your post: so my dad is married...
Be strong sweety!itās always very hard in the beginning but life still goes on isnāt that right?I donāt have the right to judge and i canāt really,but to my experience, holding grudges can only bring unhappiness, im sure it will get better gradually! Sending lots of positivity and lovee from stranger to stranger xD ā¤ļø
life does go on, but im under the belief that a toxic person should be cut from your life in order to properly move on... i know i canāt just cut my dad off. itās impossible (i work for him) but that doesnt mean i cant limit time/effort spent on him and focus on the people who enrich my life instead, like my siblings, nieces n nephew and my friends. creating priorities that make my life easier to deal with.
i do hope things get better eventually, but idk if i can ever forgive dad for everything heās done
