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u got the king of cups!

this card represents mindfulness, being acutely aware of emotions, both yours and the people’s around you. if u and ur best friend aren’t on the best terms emotionally speaking, maybe there’s been some sort of miscommunication between u guys. or maybe the both of u haven’t been paying enough attention 2 each other’s emotions n feelings bc even if u think u have, u may not have been conveying ur feelings in a language ur friend speaks. for example, me n my sister have different ways of understanding the other is there for the other. she doesn’t like talking abt feelings in general, but i do. so when i don’t feel fine, she encourages me 2 talk abt it. but when she doesn’t feel fine, i kniw the best way 2 make her feel better is 2 distract her from whatever’s upsetting her

this isn’t the best of examples but basically, try 2 understand each other’s love language; and try to pay very close attention to their emotions: how do they react to this or that? and try to understand why.

BUT ofc im not saying 2 try n guess their feelings! that will only lead 2 more miscommunication. encouraging ur best friend (and also urself!) 2 talk abt ur (negative & also positive) feelings together should go hand in hand w the being mindful of their emotions part. u probably know this but still i wanna make sure: im NOT saying 2 guess their emotions, just 2 pay close attention 2 them!!! n talk it out w them when u have the opportunity, if u feel like u should

n b open 2 talking abt ur emotions w them as well! this is a two way street!

basically, the keywords for this card are: be very mindful of u guys’ emotions n love language, communicate ur feelings 2 each other/encourage that communication

i hope this helped you!! good luck!!! 💕

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Rule 1. Always post the rules Rule 2. Answer the questions the person gave you, and write 11 new questions for the people you tag Rule 3. Tag 11 people and link them to the post Rule 4. Tell them you tag them

I was tagged by sleepy-punk

My Questions:

1. Do you think being on tumblr changes people at all?

I think it makes people more aware of the world, especially matters to do with LGBTA. It did for me, at least.

2. Who’s your favorite fictional character, and why?

Oh lord, umm... let me think. Probably GLaDOS, cause she's just so funny, and she also becomes real nice in the second game.

3. Do you have internet friends? How are they similar and different to irl friends?

I think everyone on here has internet friends, and of course I do :P they're different than real life friends because you don't see them face-to-face, and for shy people that makes them easier to talk to. And they're similar because they're just a normal person like anyone you might meet irl. (lame answer, ik sorry lol)

4. What kind of toothpaste do you use? Please tell me you use toothpaste.

Nature's gate, mint flavor

5. What kind of singing voice do you like the best? What’s your ” type” for singers, per se.

I don't really have a particular type, I pretty much anything that's not some kind of metal. It tends to depend on the singer.

6. What’s something that you think is true about yourself, but aren’t sure if others would agree?

Hmm, I honestly don't know right now I'll have to get back to you on that

7. Something you are looking forward to about school?

Meeting friends, meeting my brother's friends, and this sounds stupid, but I can't fucking wait to wear my uniform.

8 Uggs- should they be sent into hell’s incinerator or nah? I don't know about hell's incinerator, but they are pretty uggly eheheheheeheheheehehehe

9. How would you describe your spirituality/religion?

I'm just an atheist that really wants to go to space.

10. What’s something you do that’s minorly embarrassing?

Nothing's coming to mind right now :L

11. Who was your first celebrity crush?

I've never really had a celebrity crush tbh

Questions for you:

1. What's the scariest thing that's ever happened to you?

2. What's the funniest thing that's ever happened to you?

3. What did you want to grow up to be when you were little?

4. In your opinion, what's the best book you've ever read?

5. How's the weather where you are right now?

6. Has a videogame ever made you cry?

7. The last time you went out for dinner, where did you go?

8. Describe one memory you're sure you'll never forget.

9. Have you ever ridden in an airplane?

10. Have you ever been to a convention?

11. What's the farthest you've ever been from home?