itsnotusual replied to your post “Roger and Brianna”
I’ve never heard of a man leaving their wife on her wedding day in a barn, not dressed, after her first time. They have different views on the fundamentals and can’t communicate, not good foundation. He ties her down for life, the second she agrees engagement and then runs off. He was also quite rough with her, outside as well. They went through the swinging sixties yet he is more old fashioned and set in his ways and she is too young and still at uni. I felt sorry he followed her in s4.
itsnotusual replied to your post “Roger and Brianna”
I don’t think that was the show writers intention, but that was how it came across.
I have never heard of a man doing that either - but then again, that’s the beauty of storytelling and fiction... To present stories and scenarios that can happen or could happen, and which may sound farfetched, different, and sometimes even disturbing and troubling.
Poor Brianna and Roger have grown up in rather different societies and under different gender roles, and it is so sad how poorly they yet understand each other (after not really having spent that much time together), and in their hot-headedness say horrible things. To make matters worse, neither of them is mature enough to know when to shut up and let things cool down, instead of continuing to escalate the situation. I am sure many of us were squirming internally when they were shouting each other to ‘Leave, then!’ and ‘Go back then!’, thinking “Oh please you two, just shut up, don’t say anything more!” I know I did, at least!
That the show is depicting this kind of relationship - the start of a relationship - is great storytelling, as hard as it can be to see it (and as far from the ideal love story we have seen with Jaime and Claire it is...). But this is of course only my opinion, and I know others, like you, have differing views.