Aries
The Ram has a hot temper, but also gets over things quicker than most. Expect an outburst, no matter how gently you break the news. Make it about you, not them. Explain your need for more freedom, rather than detailing their shortcomings. And wait until you break up before seeing someone else, or you’ll really have a fight on your hands.
If you’re an Aries: You may regret any impetuous words. Refusing to badmouth your former flame shows you’re the bigger person, and helps the transition go more smoothly.
Taurus
Bulls are known for steadfastness: They will stick by you through thick and thin. Unless really pushed, a Taurus rarely initiates a breakup, preferring a comfortable rut to the chaos of change. Anticipate resistance. Discuss things with the Bull ahead of time, so it becomes more of a mutual decision. You’ll encounter less resistance if you’re in agreement about what’s not working.
If you’re a Taurus: It’s hard for you to let go. In fact, your friends may insist you end a relationship for your own good. Follow through, because you deserve to be truly happy.
Gemini
The Twins replay conversations over and over in their minds, trying to figure out how things could have turned out differently. Choose your words carefully and answer all their questions. Once they understand, they can get over it. They’ll also rehash the breakup with whomever will listen. Think of it as therapy — not gossip — and cut them some slack.
If you’re a Gemini: The changeability that drives others crazy works to your advantage in a breakup. You can rationalize things and move on — just be gentle with those who can’t.
Cancer
The Crab forms deep bonds and doesn’t let go easily. Even if you’re not right for each other, sensitive and giving Cancer needs your acknowledgment. Saying something like, “You’ll always have a special place in my heart,” helps the Crab move on. But don’t expect to be friends right away — give them plenty of time to get over it.
If you’re a Cancer: Like the Crab, you tend to sidestep difficult issues without clearly voicing your needs or frustrations. Be up front — not everyone is as sensitive as you.
Leo
To avoid injuring the legendary Leonine pride, take this person out to a nice dinner. Thank them for all they’ve done for you before breaking the news. If you felt neglected or mistreated, be tactful about it. “We just don’t meet each other’s needs anymore” works well. The Lion will be glad you spared his or her dignity and will be less prone to wrathful judgment. If you’re a Leo: You’re more comfortable dumping someone else than the other way around. First, ask yourself whether you’re expecting too much from the other person.
If you’re a Leo: You’re more comfortable dumping someone else than the other way around. First, ask yourself whether you’re expecting too much from the other person.
Virgo
Virgos work hard at making you happy and fixing your problems, and may not realize they’re trying too hard. If they’ve been overly giving or too industrious at pointing out your faults, talk about ways you can create more balance before giving up on the relationship. If this is not possible, illustrate what’s not working for you to make the breakup easier.Â
If you’re a Virgo: Don’t recite a long list of reasons for the breakup. Others don’t need to analyze things the way you do — heartfelt compassion and gratitude will go much farther.
Libra
For the sign that’s all about relationships, a breakup feels like true failure. Libra will often hang on until the bitter end, aiming for that elusive harmony. Be willing to attend couples counseling if you’re asked. If that doesn’t work, appeal to Libra’s sense of justice by saying it isn’t fair to either of you to continue in a situation that just isn’t working.
If you’re a Libra: Bite the bullet, speak your peace and be determined. You, of all people, are destined for relationship bliss — even if it takes a few tries to get there. Don’t settle!
Scorpio
Not everyone can handle the intense, passionate and sometimes demanding Scorpio. If you’re out of your depth or comfort zone, say so sooner rather than later — once this sign has claimed you, it’s hard to shake them loose. Don’t ever betray them or sneak around — they’ll nail you for it. Speak honestly, act boldly and hold to your resolve.
If you’re a Scorpio: Betrayal spells breakup for you, even if there was no intent to harm. Blame and revenge are counterproductive, but burning your ex in effigy can be cathartic.
Sagittarius
Giving the Sagittarian a “long leash” should fulfill their need for freedom. But if you still need more intimacy or commitment than they can provide, explain that you’re just an incompatible match. Be prepared for a possible scene, though. They may fuss and fume, but will get over it fairly quickly.
If you’re a Sagittarius: Telling the unvarnished truth is your style, but take care your bluntness doesn’t leave lasting wounds. And, don’t elaborate endlessly on your reasons.
Capricorn
Having a well-thought-out exit plan lets the Goat know you’re serious about breaking up. They may not show their feelings, but they don’t give up easily and may offer you various incentives to give it another try. Be sure to express gratitude for all they’ve given you, even if you felt it wasn’t enough, and you’ll be able to part on good terms.
If you’re a Capricorn: You keep a stiff upper lip, so others can be shocked to find out you are unhappy. Discuss things with your soon-to-be-ex — don’t spring it on them as a done deal.
Aquarius
Stressing your need for greater freedom is speaking an Aquarian’s language. They’re not that good at intimacy, and they know it — so don’t rub it in. They make great friends, though, and will probably be glad to remain buddies with you. Don’t mistake a cool reaction for lack of caring. Encourage them to get emotional — it’s good for them.
If you’re an Aquarius: Disappearing or becoming unavailable isn’t a good strategy for a breakup. If you leave your partner guessing, you’re asking for trouble. Be direct.
Pisces
The Fish will hang on to you forever if they feel you need them. Therefore, becoming more self-reliant is your first step. Then, let Pisces know how much you adore them, but that you have to move on. If they’ve put you on a pedestal, don’t be afraid to step off and show your true self — but try not to hurt their sensitive feelings in the process.
If you’re a Pisces: Don’t be wishy-washy about breaking up, especially if someone is taking advantage of you. Being too nice or vague about your needs won’t set you free.
