#interest level

A woman might say “I can't wait to see you”, but then come up with excuse after excuse for why she is unavailable to see you. If she really wanted to see you, she'd make a way to see you. The reason women begin to exhibit these kind inconsistent behaviors is because they are faking a higher interest that they actually have. Especially when a woman’s interest level drops into the 40 - 49% range she may begin to act inconsistent. What this means is that she says one thing but responds another way. For example, your girlfriend might be telling you how much she wants to see you but when you try to set a date with her she is always too busy. If she really wanted to see you as badly as she claims she does, your girlfriend would make time to see you.

Whenever you start noticing these inconsistencies from women, remain calm and give her the gift of missing you. In other words, don't allow your high interest to cause you to chase her or over pursue her. Let her call and chase you then when she does take that opportunity to set a date.

Never buy into her womanese. You can pay attention to what she is saying but pay close attention to how she is saying it. Pay even closer attention to what she does versus what she says. If she has become inconsistent her interest level is dropping.

The first inconsistencies you may notice from a girlfriend that has fallen in love with you(at some point), is that she no longer says "I love you" or calls you baby. Or maybe she doesn't call as much as she used to. These are things you need to take notice of.

Next you will may begin to notice that she doesn't laugh at your jokes as much and she doesn't touch you as much. She may still be spending time with you but you are always the one to mention hanging out.

When a woman's interest level starts to really take a dive you will find that she spends a lot more time with her friends. Maybe before she would ditch hanging out with her girlfriends to spend the night with you but lately you can't get her to commit to a date because she is always go out with her friends.

Next comes a set of irrational arguments. Her incredibly low romantic interest is causing her to flip out on you. She is trying to tell you that you are close to being out of the door.

After the arguments, everything seems fine. She might be "saying I love you" again and even calling you a bit more. At this point she is playing the part very well. She will be the most inconsistent in the sense that she says one thing but does another.

Finally the day arrives when she breaks your heart. She tells you she "just wants to be friends" but still cares for you. Then like an idiot you agree to be friends.

This illustration is a basic example of the break up process. Women lose interest in stages. Inconsistent behavior is your clue to an attraction that has begun to slowly fade away. Anytime you realize that she is inconsistent, give her a little space. It is always best to let women come to you at their own pace. It is better to pull away to create attraction when she first begins to drift away than to try to re-attract her when she dumps you. Ask yourself would you rather move the vase off of the wobbly table once you first notice the vase could potentially fall and break or are you going to wait until the vase breaks so that you can glue the hundreds of little pieces back together?

When talking about a woman's interest level and specifying a percentage to represent my evaluation of her interest level, I must first define what these percentages mean so that you understand that they are not just random numbers. 

50% = Her interest level is undefined. She has not yet decided if you will be a lover or a reject. This period only takes place when a woman first meets you. Its a brief moment only lasting for about 2 to 3 seconds. You won't even notice this point. When her interest drops from 51% it skips 50% and drops all the way down to 49%. It's just the way it is. Once she knows who you are she can't ever NOT know if she likes you or not. She may claim to be unsure but it's really just her low interest level(see below) speaking.

51% - 100% = This is TRUE romantic interest. She legitimately views you as a lover or a potential lover. At 51% you have a chance with her but only a fighting chance. According to Doc Love, when a woman's interest drops from 51% to 49%(remember it skips 50% on this scale) her interest cannot rise back above 50%. This is not always true but is almost always the case. There are a couple of reasons for this. It could be anything from her resentment towards you for cheating on her to a new interest in another guy. No matter the variable, she will not likely develop a romantic interest in you again. At 100% she is madly in love with you.

0 - 49% = This is non romantic interest. Simple and plain.

0 - 39% = The range in which a woman has began to resent or hate you. The closer you get to zero the more you disgust her. This is normally the range a woman will break up with a man but there are always exceptions to the rule (See Premature Breakups).

40 - 49% = This is the range that is commonly known as the friend zone. She doesn't hate you but she doesn't have any romantic feelings either. When in a relationship with you, when a woman's interest drops below 50% she may be feeling guilty about her low interest. She fakes a higher interest in you to avoid hurting your feelings(which she inevitably does anyway when she dumps you). Sometimes a false evaluation will be made by a man who will be thinking her interest level is around 75%. One key way to tell the difference is to recognize if she is avoiding arguments or starting them. This is also the range in which professional daters will go out on a date with a guy because they don't require at least 51% interest to go out with you.

0 - 74% = This is low interest in general. When I use the term low interest it could mean non romantic interest or romantic interest below 75%.

51 - 74% = This is low romantic interest. When her interest has dropped below 75% it is when the negative behaviors begin to occur.

75% - 100% = High interest level is communicated through positive actions, responses, and interactions.

90 - 94% = The woman is infatuated in this range. The Infatuation Zone, not to be confused with the infatuation phase, is when she has starting thinking about you all of the time. Everything reminds her of you. You are often the topic of conversation with her friends. She has started calling you quite often and maybe even daily. This is the range when women begin to fall in love.

95 - 100% = She is madly in love with you. She can't stop thinking about you and when she's in your presence she feels euphoric sensations(translation: she feels a high). She has know doubt in her mind that she wants to spend the rest of her life with you(well at least at the moment anyway). If she isn't already telling you she is in love with you it's coming very soon.