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Honest Movie Review | Spoiler Alert!

Tbh, I'm surprised that most of the reviews in this movie were focused on how much Ben loves Jen. I mean, it’s true that Ben is an ideal boyfriend but idk, maybe because I’m already 25 that’s why it’s not what I noticed or I am just being atribida lol

I may have fell for a guy like Ben, too. They’re already in a 13-year-relationship and he’s still trying to win Jen’s heart even if it’s already his. But for me, you don’t settle for someone who only loves you when things are doing okay.

LOVE IS NEVER SELFISH they say, and it should not be selfless too. Ben said that in their relationship, he always put Jen’s happiness first before his. So what about him, right? I’m not saying that it is wrong but I think this is one of those things that we forget when we fell in love, to always spare some love for ourselves too. You will really get tired if you’ll give your all. That’s why Ben came to the point that he got tired of Jen. But isn’t it funny - that just because Jen suddenly “changed” her behavior or herself, Ben chose to leave her. Ben really ended their 13-year-relationship just because of her girlfriend’s “mood swings” (side effect of her brain tumor). Are you willing to settle with that kind of person? Of course not!

Correct me if I’m wrong but do we still need to have an illness for us to be understood? For them not to leave us? What if we just suddenly changed, no brain tumor or anything, or that person is really a “cry baby” or toyoin? For me, even if the person changes, even if he/she has a brain tumor or not, if he/she have toyo/topak or not, even if that someone became unpredictable, YOU STAY. Because LOVE IS PATIENT 💞 But not in a way that his/her toyo is just only kaartehan ha hahaha

Well I am happy that Jen did not end up with Ben 😊 Not because Jen died at the end of the movie, but for me, if ever they ended up with each other & Jen will be complicated & unpredictable, Ben will surely leave her still. And no one deserves that kind of love 😔

And lastly, this is for those people who are mad with Abi (Ben’s wife). Yes, no one will ever be comfortable if their other half is with their ex. But what I understand here is that, this is what the movie is telling us - for us to settle for someone like Abi. Someone who loves us without a doubt and trust us no matter what. Someone who knows that even if it is possible that we could get back with our exes, still chooses to understand & be with us. This is the love we all deserve because LOVE IS KIND.