Do not let your love cloud you into not allowing them to be their own person. Let them speak for themselves. Let them be strong. Let them grow. Hold them tightly when they need it; give them space when they need it. Learn to decipher the difference of when they need it and when they ask for it, because the two are often not the same.

So naturally instead of sleeping today (to prepare for nightshift) i decided to go to my old fwb house because why the fuck would i say no? I never do. So now im at work im tired and my body hurts 😒 im glad i sit all night because standing feels like hell

i hate feelings