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So yes the mun has borderline personality disorder and, sadly, I often find myself worrying that people will think me toxic for being this way! I just need to clear a few things up because I know other muns who have this and it’s hell for them sometimes! Sometimes it’s nice too (at least for me) I’m either really happy or in love or enjoying myself or really down on my luck and feeling hateful. This is all apart of what we like to call “splitting!” And I learnt the best way for me to cope with this is to be honest when I am splitting and I tell my friend that it isn’t anything they’ve done but I’m splitting on them I need time away! Luckily I have understanding friends but not everybody is this way and stigma likes to say that people on the borderline are aggressive and manipulative etc. Which is not correct at all! I may run and hide from select people every now and then but that isn’t out of manipulation! If I think someone doesn’t like me I know I can’t make them like me! I don’t even try to make them! I just hide away and sometimes for me that’s a need to unfollow or soft block luckily it doesn’t happen that often for me but yeah it’s hard! And as I said with splitting one minute I’m determined to end everything and the next I’m feeling guilty for that and I just want to make amends! It’s understandable if that person doesn’t want to be mutuals again after but just remember to be as understanding as you can about the situation in a sense that you don’t call out that person out on their splitting behaviour because it’s not a nice position to be in you know?

Striking, though, how the many will call for advancement yet once faced with the prospect of participation themselves there is naught to be offered.