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Dating a (D)on't (L)ove

Dating a DL was one of the hardest things in my life. Besides the fact that we had to sneak around because no one knew about him nor was he comfortable about it. Every time we hung out it was always first with his cousin until he leaves the house then alone time. Every time we was around his cousin and his friends I would have to hear him talk about women he was having sex with or talking too. After a point of time into that conversation with his friends I would get annoyed.Well more jealous because he would talk about these women like they were Halle berry types ( and I knew he wasn't pulling that because he was about a 6 not a 9 ). When we usually got alone the first half was arguing about what he was talking about and the next was sex. For someone who didn't know if he was gay or not the sex was poppin. He knew more moves then me. He claimed he watched porn and learned. It came to the point that all we did was have sex After a while I didn't feel secure in myself. I was doubting if I was good enough.If it was worth all the nonsense of sneaking around It was coming to a point where I felt god was trying to teach me a lesson and tell me I have to work for my soulmate but then I thought he would at least help a brother out and make him gay first. So I ended it ... thirty times to be exact before I got my shit together and didn't go back one day. Moral of the story is don't date DL That stand for Don't love , Don't lead , Downward life , Desperate living .. you get the point.

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Never be a rebound sis !

if they just broke up with their spouse and suddenly wants you to give them the time of day and be with you.

they are looking for a rebound. here are some signs to know if you are in a rebound relationship.

The “Ex” Talk

He talks about his ex all the time. He mentions that you look like her, or that you remind him of her. this is another sign that he is not over his ex. it is important to appreciate each relationship and person in their own right, rather than constantly holding them up for comparison.

The “Ex” Remains

Even though the breakup was clearly recent, he says he’s still friends with her ex. Sure enough, Facebook confirms they’re still in contact — or worse, they begin liking and commenting under each other's picture. Run sis ! he aint over her. If the recent ex is still an active part of your date’s daily life, you’re likely a rebound

Friends Are Surprised He’s Dating Again

If his friends (or yours) are raising their eyebrows at the speed with which he started dating again post-breakup, the new relationship might be poorly timed. Sometimes it’s wise to trust the red flags coming from others.

Commitment-phobic

If your new boo can’t make a single relationship decision — or even a commitment for next Friday night — he is likely still adjusting to a life of singleness. he might not be used to operating independently. He might be “keeping his options open” because he felt he “settled” last time. A rebound relationship is often an undefined one, with little security or commitment offered from the recently single one.

they don't match your checklist

While it’s perfectly fine (and can even be beneficial) to date against your ‘type’, if you find that you are dating somebody who doesn’t have any of the important character traits you’d like your other half to have, it may be that you have fallen into the “anyone is better than no one” mindset in your desperation to get back on the dating scene. If you are of the opinion that anyone will do, it’s safe to say you are in a rebound relationship.

They want to keep it causal

One of the signs that he’s on a rebound is that he just wants to forget and he doesn’t want to commit. There are two options: he might have commitment issues or he’s still not over his last commitment.

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