Hey, I was wondering if you could help me out with this situation. There's this guy and he's in my German class, and I have spoken German for a few years before I started taking classes, so I'm much more advanced than him, and whenever we talk in German he just kind of watches me and... I don't know. he's really cute. but I've been out as a lesbian for a long time, and I don't know. can I like him but not guys? just girls and him? I have no clue what I'm doing. also, advice on how (part 1)
how to tell if he likes me back???? uh... just generally... help. Thanks! (part 2)
Even though you’ve been out as a lesbian, of course you can still like him. He may be the exception to your rule. Or you may be learning that your sexual preference is more fluid than you originally thought. Either way is fine! Don’t let labels hem you in.
I don’t, however, know if there is enough data to determine if he likes you back. It’s possible he’s just a friendly guy. I would just continue getting to know him and try to befriend him. Who knows? Something could blossom from there!