Omg Kitty :( So last night was my 4th night. I'm having trouble dancing on stage and talking to guys. Talking to guys is always so awkward and personal, they always want to know my life & whats next and why I'm here. It honestly depresses me. Dancing on stage is depressing me too. All the other girls do pole tricks and they dance so gracefully to every song... and all I do is move my hips side to side... I'm so insecure. I might not go in for while. I fucking suck. I know fri & sat is $$$ but :(
If you donāt go in you wonāt get better. No one was a good dancer their first week trust me, you will ONLY get better if you push forward and keep trying. Stage doesnāt matter, as long as your smiling and looking sexy you can just move your hips all you want. You donāt have to do pole tricks. You should watch some of the other girls stages and do some of the floor work moves you see them do. Donāt straight up copy their moves if you see them do something unique but if you see a lot of girls doing a similar move try that out next time you go on stage, or even in a mirror at home so you can see what it looks like. Talking to guys is easy. You should come up with a script that you say to every customer to take the pressure off of you. Example of what I would say:Me: Hey baby how are you?Him: good how are you?Me: Iām great! what brings you here tonight?Him: bachelor party, came to relax etcMe: Oh nice ;) So have you been in here before or is it your first time?Him: first time, been here before etcMe: oh cool! Are you planning on having lots of fun tonight?Him: yeah, a little bit, etcMe: well you should come have some fun in the back with me! I give the sexiest dances. Thatās just an example of what I might say, but you can of course move words around, add things, talk longer. I like keeping it short and sweet especially at the club i am currently at where thereās a big party vibe and everythingās really upbeat and exciting. Another thing I like to say to them is āYouāll have way more fun with me than sitting out here ;)āBut yeah I personally save the long conversation for when Iām doing a bunch of dances or in a VIP room with a customer because I donāt like to spend all that time with someone who maybe wonāt buy something right then. I really suggest you make a script! :)