Let me say something about "validation" The problem with most of us, adults and children, is that we are seeking others to presume "accurancy" and "authentication" via the "opinions and ideas other people. And true empowerment comes when you are unaffected by BOTH the approval and disapproval from other people as they pass judgment about who you are, or what you do. It's a muscle you have to train by right, unadulterated self thought. To be totally objective about yourself is where freedom resides. When you don't expect anything from anyone that you haven't earned, you become free to say or feel what you want because you don't have to appease or beguile anyone, and in turn, you don't need them to whisper sweet nothings in your ear either. The pump up doesn't fuvking work because if al it took was a little love, then we would not have so many fuvked up adults. You are fuvjed up because you are trying to please people that its impossible to please because they hate their fuvking SELF. Do you get what im say here? You have to cut the mutha fuvking cord of attachment and loyalty to people you haven't earned your time, your sacrifice, your talent etc. "Your Life Coach, Artist, Author, Poet" ~Salkis Re Fine Art by Salkis Re Website : www.iloveherart.com #lifecoach #author #artist #writer #poet #littlegirls #lawofattraction #selflove #relationshipadvice #howtobuildselfesteem #africanart #naturalhair
