#homeshare

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Be careful when entering the sharing economy.

Homesharing is when one person lives with another, rent-free, in exchange for certain caregiving or support services, and it’s a huge boon to spoonies!

If you are just a little too sick to work, but feel like a live-in arrangement would be manageable, it’s a great way to get your rent covered while helping someone else. If you’re in need of a support person but either can’t afford one or want to build an actual relationship with one, it’s a great way to find a helping hand.

Why Airbnb needs some serious renovations

I began traveling over 30 years ago and I consider myself a seasoned traveler. My wife and I have been using Airbnb since 2012.  During a 5 week trip to Europe in June 2018, five out of the six places we stayed were Airbnb apartments which we carefully chose.  While our past Airbnb experiences have been mostly positive we learned during this trip that the travel platform has some very serious issues.

Let’s start with what Airbnb calls hosts.  The conventional definition of a host is, “a person who receives or entertains other people as guests.”  Airbnb has taken that definition and completely convoluted its meaning.

The potential guest may assume that their “host” is the person listed on Airbnb as host but that could be a completely wrong assumption.  The “host” on Airbnb is often just a ghost.

According to Airbnb, the host is simply the person who has sent their identifying documents to Airbnb as the human responsible for a particular listing.  The Airbnb host is also meant to be the person who has posted their photo next to their name. One assumes that this photo is an accurate visual representation of the host.

Lets just call the person paying for the Airbnb rental the “guest” Lets call the person who writes back and forth to the guest the “communicator.” Lets call the person who meets the guest and takes them to the rental and shows them the ropes the “greeter” Now lets see how this all plays out in the real world. When a guest is interested in making a booking they often first send a message to the host asking if they are able to make the booking. The guest assumes that the person or they are corresponding with is the named host.   That would also be a wrong assumption. Often the person writing to the guest is a completely different person who has an unknown relationship to the named host or to the rental.

Once a listing is booked and there are various back and forth messages with the “host” about what time the guest will arrive and exactly where they will meet to check into the rental.  The guest assumes that they are going to be met by the person who has been writing to them to be shown the apartment and to ask any questions. Wrong again.

Often when the guest arrives at the meeting place the greeter is a completely different person that the named host or the communicator.  

All of this would be fine if the guest actually was informed in advance who exactly was the host, who exactly was the communicator and who exactly was going to be their greeter.  Sadly the guest is often left in the dark.

Why does this happen?  The easy answer is that the Airbnb Host allows it to happen. This Airbnb host is free to assign a “communicator” to deal with the guests and this communicator is free to sign their messages in the host’s name even if they are a different person.  The host is also free to assign the task of greeter to another third party without letting the guest know in advance.  In reality the host is free to have no role whatsoever in the management of the listing or interacting with the guest.  The host does however always have one important role – the host is the one collecting the rent.

Let me give an example for our recent trip to Europe in June of 2018.  Some names and cities have been changed to shield the guilty but everything is as it happened.

We booked an apartment in Rome, Italy for 7 nights.  Let’s call the host “Sophia.”  There was a photo of Sophia on the listing next to a young girl.  The photo was very low resolution but you could make out a kind smile. The photo did make me sympathetic to the host.   Before we arrived at the apartment there were quite a few back and forth messages from the host signed by Sophia.  However we later found out none of these messages had actually written by Sophia.  We were told to arrive at an office no later than 6pm.  When we arrived at the office Sophia was nowhere to be found.  The person in charge of the office passed us onto another person who spoke just enough English to show us the apartment which was a short distance away.  When I asked about our host Sophia I was told that she worked at a shop elsewhere in the city and if I wanted to meet here I could find her in the shop.  I later found out that our “host” Sophia had absolutely nothing to do with the guests.  Sophia was not actually the “communicator” although all of our messages had been signed by her to and she certainly was not our “greeter.”   During our 7 night stay, Sophia never reached out, texted or made a cameo appearance. Pretty photo, named host but not involved in any manner in the listing – a ghost.

Another version of the ghost host phenomenon happened at an Airbnb on Lake Como. This named host of this apartment was a holiday rental company so at least we knew up front that the person we were corresponding with was an employee of the rental company.  The communicator named Chris was very helpful and gave us lots of help in figuring out how best get to the tiny village from the city of Como.  On the day of our arrival we were in contact numerous times.  In fact 45 minutes before we arrived at their office Chris wrote that he was looking forward to seeing us soon.  We arrived at the office exactly on time but Chris was nowhere to be found.  I young German girl was our greeter at the office.  We asked what happened to Chris.  She said he was too busy to meet us even though less than an hour before he was looking forward to meeting us.  The young German girl did her check in procedure and then something happened that had never happened before.   The girl handed us the keys, pointed down the road, said to look for a green house and just to let ourselves inside.  Never before in our long history with Airbnb had we NOT been brought in person to the rental and been allowed to ask questions about the unit.  Of course we found the apartment but we felt that our greeter experience had reached an all time low.  Chris, the communicator continued to answer any questions we had by email but never showed his face.  Chris was a ghost communicator. Now lets talk about  “Superhosts.”  Airbnb defines a superhost as follows: “Superhosts are highly rated and reliable, going above and beyond to create an exceptional stay for every guest.” Unless you have dug deep into the terms and conditions of the Airbnb website, you would have thought that someone who had earned the badge of “Superhost” would in fact a super host.  Nothing could be further from the truth.  It turns out that a host can become a “Superhost” simply by maintaining a minimum star rating and a minimum number of successful rentals per year.  The superhost designation is completely computer generated -  there are no humans involved.  There is no requirement that a “Superhost” submit a clear photo taken within a reasonably recent time frame.  The photo may or not be a real photo of Superhost at all.  There is no requirement that a “Superhost” write a reasonable description of the rental and submit reasonably accurate photos.  There is no requirement that a “Superhost” is a warm or welcoming person.  There is no requirement that a “Superhost” provide detailed instructions on how best to arrive at the rental from various starting points such as airport, train, taxi or on foot.  There is no requirement that a “Superhost” provide information to the guest about the appliances or features of the apartment.  There is no requirement that the “Superhost” provide additional recommendations about nearby sights, restaurants or local transport. The “Superhost” might be the owner of the unit, might be the agent of the owner, might be the communicator or might be the greeter.  The Superhost might be all of the above, some of the above or none of the above. There is no requirement that the “Superhost” disclose who they are or what is their role.  Like the basic host, the “Superhost” is the person who has submitted their identifying documents and may or may not be the person who is pictured in the photo.  There is no way to know if they are active in management the rental or if they are simple a ghost host.

Lets consider another real life example

We had woken up at 5 AM in Lisbon, Portugal and had traveled over 9 hours to get to Rome, Italy.  We arrived at the office about 5 PM utterly exhausted. The simple politeness of a host to a guest should have dictated some words of welcome or interest such as welcome to Rome, or how was your trip or did you have any problem finding our office. Instead our reception was more like arriving at immigration at the airport. No smiles, no welcome and no kindness.  We were asked for our passports, and then told we had to pay 21 euros in cash for a tourist tax. This additional tax was not disclosed in the listing so we felt put off from the get go. As I previous recounted, the person with whom we had been communicating through Airbnb was named Sophia and Sophia is rated as a “superhost.” Each and each and every message we had written before we arrived through Airbnb messaging had been signed by “Sophia.”  When I asked where she was, the communicator, Luigi told us that Sophia was his wife and worked at another shop. An assistant of Luigi took us to the apartment as she spoke a small amount of English.  She was not able to answer any questions about the apartment such as how to use the washing machine or where to dispose of the garbage and there were no written instructions or any kind or suggestions about anything in the apartment or the town. Other “Superhosts” have extensive written manuals written in English to orient you to the city and explain how appliances work. This apartment had nothing. The one and only written word in the apartment was how to turn on the power at the switchboard downstairs if all of the electricity went dead. When our greeter showed us the apartment I checked to see if the internet worked as I have a web based business and this was a key feature of any place we rented.  The internet was completed dead.  During the following hours various people came and went trying to figure out what was wrong. After several hours they were able to get the wifi to work but it was a hassle to deal with after an exhausting day of travel. We were staying for 7 nights and noticed there was only half a roll of toilet paper.  We sent a whatsapp message  to Luigi about this and commented that the listing said that toilet paper was included.  Luigi initially told us to buy our own but when said this was not acceptable he reluctantly brought us a few extra rolls. As we settled in to our new home we discovered one of the front door keys did not work, there was no way to boil water except in a pot, there were no wine glasses and the fry pan was not usable.  My wife makes tea several times a day, I cook eggs for breakfast and both my wife and I think its more romantic to drink Prosecco from a wine glass. The next morning I spent over an hour in the office with Luigi.  We had to write back and forth using google translate on his computer to communicate.  Luigi finally agreed to provide a working key, an electric kettle, wine glasses and a new fry pan but said in no uncertain terms that we were “difficult” and he clearly was angry with our requests.   Luigi provided the items we asked for but his unfriendly attitude and sheer lack of any warmth or kindness put a real damper on our stay.   We had never experienced a “Superhost” who was so unwelcoming. What we requested was listed in the apartment’s description or what we have experienced in most all of the other Airbnbs in which we have stayed.  In our many interactions during that week, the named “Superhost” Sophia never showed her smiling face.

Now let’s consider negative reviews.  If you have a bad experience with a host you may want to let future guests know about it and leave an honest review about your experience. I did exactly that for our experience with the ghost host Sophia and her communicator husband Luigi.  I actually wrote a very long review and was hopeful that it would be published.  However when it was finally published I found out that the maximum word count for an Airbnb review is 500 words.  This does appear if you dig in the terms and conditions of the website but on the page where you write the review Airbnb neglects to add the simple subtext that reviews are max 500 words.  By the time you find this out it is too late as reviews cannot be edited after 48 hours.  Thanks Airbnb for letting me know this upfront when I needed to know.  

If you have a bad experience with a “host” then your host might leave YOU a negative review as well.  That is as it should be.  If you are being honest and transparent then both parties should be able to express how they feel and what they experienced.  However a couple of weeks after  my negative review of Sophia was published and Sophia’s  negative review of me was published I received this email from Airbnb:

“You received an unfavorable review after one of your stays. We know that sometimes things happen, but we want both the guests and hosts that make up our global community feel respected, welcome, and safe anytime they’re using Airbnb.  Guests who receive multiple negative reviews may not be able to book a future stay on Airbnb.”

There are many reasons that a “host” might leave a bad review for a guest.  The guest left the rental messy, disturbed the neighbors or behaved badly.  However there are other reasons that a host can leave a bad review for a guest.  The guest was “difficult” and asked for such unreasonable things as toilet paper, keys that opened the door, working internet and basic kitchen implements. The fact that any negative review from a host means that the guest may “not be able to book a future stay on Airbnb” simply means that Airbnb values positive reviews and punishes negative reviews no matter what the backstory might be.  Airbnb makes their position quite clear – if you have a bad experience and your host leaves you a negative review you may be kicked off our platform. A had a problem with another rental in Milan.  It was the last 4 nights of our trip and we rented a relatively luxurious apartment. Our Superhosts were owners, communicators and greeters all in one and were indeed great at hospitality.  They were what superhosts were supposed to be.  Unfortunately the AC did not work at all and it was 95 degrees fahrenheit (35 celsius) in Milan every day during our stay.  The host did everything they could to fix the AC but nothing worked.  The strange thing was that the host persisted in blaming us for the fact that the AC was dead because I admitted that I had checked the filter.  The fact that a burglar had stood on the outdoor unit trying to break into the apartment BEFORE we arrived and that the host had shown this to us on our arrival walk through did not seem to matter.  When we got home I had a long conversation with customer service about what an appropriate amount to ask as a refund. The amount I suggested was confirmed as reasonable by Airbnb customer service and only then did I put through the request.  Later I get an email from the Airbnb Resolutions Center saying that had spoken to the host and rejected my request. There was no email address or phone number to reply to this resolutions specialist.  There was no way to contact them through Airbnb messaging or the website.  The Resolution specialist was another ghost.  Airbnb recommends that all communication between a guest and host be done through the website or app so that everything that happens can be viewed later.  That is as it should be. Further when you have any issue with Airbnb customer service you can call or view that conversation through the messaging. But when it comes to refunds all of a sudden the conversation is one way.  The take away is clear – all communication should be through Airbnb UNLESS it involves Airbnb Resolutions.  

I am well aware that Airbnb is a platform on the web and that it is difficult to police thousands of listings around the world.  However I am also aware that Airbnb has made zillions of dollars creating a platform for ordinary people to enter the hospitality market.  The problem of course is that some of these ordinary people do not have a clue about the hospitality part. Airbnb has recognized this itself and started a new division called Airbnb Plus.  The Airbnb Plus rentals have actually had a real live person verifiy the details about both the rental and the host. Human to human interaction.  How novel.  This new Airbnb Plus idea is great but unfortunately only covers a limited number of big cities.

So what can Airbnb do to make its platform more transparent for its many guests?  Here is MY checklist

1 – Get rid of the meaningless term “Host” and replace it with these more meaningful terms. a – New term – Owner / Agent If the owner is “JOE” and he is involved in the rental say so up front If the owner has designated an agent or rental company to act in their behalf then name them up front b – New term – Communicator - the person who is communicating to you about the rental. Let the guest know the real name of the Communicator and let the guest know what their relationship is the Owner / Agent or if they are the Owner / Agent   C – New term – Greeter - the person who greets you at the rental when you arrive, takes you to the rental, shows you around and answers any questions the guest may have.  Let the guest know who their greeter will be before they arrive and let the guest know what the relationship is between the Greeter and the Owner / Agent and the Communicator. 2  - Photos Currently the photo listed next to the “host” may or may not actually be the host, may or may not have been taken in the last 10 years and may or may not be clear. I suggest that AirBnb update their photo policy and require all photos be a reasonably high resolution and request that the photo submitted to be no more than 2 years old. Each Owner / Agent should submit a photo or logo Each Communicator should submit a clear photo Each Greeter should have a photo

3 -  Stop using the term “Superhost” Let’s be honest Airbnb.  It is absurd to claim that all Superhosts are  “highly rated and reliable, going above and beyond to create an exceptional stay for every guest”  You can’t every verify what role if any the “Superhost” plays. You certainly can't verify that a “Superhost” creates an exceptional stay.  There is absolutely no way to know that unless an objective third party person has vetted the host.  Stop pretending that a computer algorithm can measure the quality of an interpersonal experience. Just let the reviews speak for themselves and continue to get more Airbnb Plus rentals verified by real humans as that is a the only honest way to verify what is or is not going on at a rental. 4 – Make Reviews Fair a – below the box where the guest writes their reviews let them know up front that they may write a maximum of 500 words  b – don’t tell guests that they will be kicked off the platform if the host leaves them a negative review.  If you want a fair dialog then both sides of the transaction should be free to express their opinion without being bullied by the platform to leave positive reviews or else get kicked out 5 – Be Transparent With Disputes If you expect guests and rental operators to use your platform exclusively to communicate about a rental then have the same standard for your own resolutions department.  All communication with an Airbnb Resolutions specialist should be trackable on the Airbnb platform and resolution specialists should be contactable directly by both  the guest and the rental operator

I believe the home sharing economy that Airbnb helped to create is a good thing. I have personally been an Airbnb customer for many years and in the past most of my experiences were positive. Airbnb is still relatively new and like many new enterprises it needs to become more transparent and honest with its users.  We as internet consumers have come to expect that other internet giants like Facbook and Google become more transparent and honest about the data they collect and how it is used.  It is time that Airbnb joins the fold and starts being more honest with the millions of people around the world that entrust them as an enabler of travel. So Airbnb I have now left you a very long negative review.  But here is my question for you

Is anyone listening?

Vancouver home-share violators to face C$1,000-a-day fine

Thu, Apr 12, 2018 – 3:57 PM [VANCOUVER] Operators of unlicensed short-term rentals in Vancouver will face a C$ 1,000-a-day (S$ 1,040) fine starting in September as part of an agreement with Airbnb Inc to tighten regulations on home sharing in Canada’s most expensive property market. The city’s deal with Airbnb will require hosts to display a business license number on ads showing the unit is…

By Sam Bright, BBC World Hacks, Jan. 20, 2017

Here’s a solution that could tackle two of the West’s most urgent problems: a young generation priced out of affordable housing, and the loneliness and isolation of a rapidly ageing population.

For so-called millenials, like Mikyoung Ahn, a large home is a seemingly unattainable dream. She could not imagine living in a spacious detached house on the leafy outskirts of Paris, just half an hour from the Arc de Triomphe. She definitely couldn’t imagine paying just 120 Euros (£100) a month to live there.

This is not an fantasy, but the life of Mikyoung Ahn, a 25-year-old student from Seoul, South Korea.

An aspiring architect, Mikyoung wanted to live and study in one of the world’s cultural capitals. But when she looked at housing options in Paris, she realised the city was simply unaffordable on her budget.

So she turned away from traditional student accommodation. Instead of moving in with other young people, Mikyoung chose as a landlady and housemate a 78-year-old widow with a passion for patchwork.

“I knew I was going away from home for university, and that I wouldn’t have any family or any friends,” she says. “But after the first meeting her, I knew it was going to be perfect.”

Mikyoung and her landlady, Monique, have been living together since October, after they were matched by an organisation called Ensemble2Generations. This organisation and others like it pair elderly people with students, in an arrangement called homeshare.

The concept is simple, yet it attempts to bridge an intergenerational divide that exists in many parts of the world.

On one side are older people, who own properties that were purchased when house prices were comparatively cheap, but who may now need some help with daily activities like shopping and cleaning.

On the other side are young people, who cannot afford to rent a decent flat, but who may have some time to spare.

Mikyoung helps Monique with a range of everyday tasks. She carries Monique’s shopping in the supermarket, washes up, and has even created an instruction sheet to help Monique understand all the buttons on her TV remote.

“It’s not a big deal,” she says. “It’s just life, you know. If I lived here, I would have to clean the dishes or take the trash out. I feel really this is my home--this is our home.

“Every night when I come back, I prepare the dinner and I put on the music that I have learned today. For example, Champs-Élysées or something like that, and we sing together.”

Monique, who is a retired schoolteacher, is now an avid fan of Downton Abbey, after being introduced to the programme by Mikyoung.

“We have very good moments together, because we share a lot,” says Monique. “We often sit together and watch TV programmes. Everything is simple between us.”

Turning to Monique, she adds: “You are like a granddaughter to me.”

Homeshare is not a new idea--it was first trialled in the USA and Spain during the 1980s. However, experts have recently started to view it as a scalable solution to two problems that continue to cause social problems. While young people are migrating to cities, pushing up the price of rent, many populations in the developed world are ageing.

Homeshare schemes are now active in 16 countries across the world. Since 1999, an organisation called Homeshare International has acted as a network for homeshare schemes.

“The benefits to the householder are they feel much safer at home because of having someone else in the house,” says Elizabeth Mills, the organisation’s director. “They’re happier, incidents of accidents and falls go down, and the reassurance for the householder’s family is absolutely enormous.”

Most programmes offer two homeshare arrangements for prospective participants. The first allows the student to live in an elderly person’s home rent-free in exchange for help around the house. The second requires the student to contribute money to household bills, but places fewer burdens on their time.

So will schemes like this help solve the housing crises of millenials--and the problems of the elderly?

Research into homeshare projects in Spain and the USA indicates that participants are overwhelmingly satisfied by the arrangement. The Spanish study, for example, reported that 93.2% of elderly people had benefitted in some way from the programme, while 98.7% of students had benefitted.

Despite this, some partnerships simply do not work out.

A major issue is that people of different generations may not always get on. Monique’s previous housemate was a young gardener who spent a lot of time out of the house. When they did occasionally eat together, the gardener did not want to have a conversation. Instead, according to Monique, he just stared vacantly at his phone. But that did not shake Monique’s confidence in homeshare.

“I never doubted whether I wanted to homeshare. I knew there were other people out there… It is a good solution for me.”

And although the gardener did not provide much companionship for Monique, experts widely acknowledge that homeshare is an effective antidote to loneliness--a problem that affects over one million elderly people in Britain, according to Age UK. Helen Bown, a policy expert who specialises in social isolation, says that the emotional support provided by a homeshare relationship often exceeds its financial advantages.

“People talk about not feeling so lonely anymore, particularly people who are single,” she says. “People have talked about having a safety net, particularly at night.

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