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it would mean a lot to both of us if you followed her on her new blog vcrsailles

it would also mean a lot if you reblogged this post to spread the word :))

So I’m sitting here 23 away from my next hundred - which in itself is staggering considering how little I’ve been on the site these past two weeks due to a migraine, an illness and some never ending depression.  Yet you guys have stuck by my and some have even joined me.  So hello to all you new wonderful followers.  Which means when I hit this goal I am a mere hundred away from my next thousand. 

Over the past few months I’ve seen plenty of discord among my dash about everything and anything you can imagine.  It got to a point where I didn’t want to log onto tumblr anymore because all it did was upset me or make me feel worse about myself and things going on and this was the space that I used to get away from my troubles.  It was my happy place.  There wasn’t one thing in particular that started making me feel this way, it was everything.

I got tired of all the drama, if you don’t do this, or follow this blog, or agree with this statement than you’re wrong and don’t deserve any say in the matter.  Well you know what, I do deserve a say in the matter as well as everyone else who uses this site.

We run our blogs as we see fit and to our liking.  It’s for us, not for anyone else.  You like my blog great follow me, you don’t, fine don’t follow me.  You have that right.  This is my space of happiness and to keep it that way I employ xkit to block things I don’t want to see or remove post with a handy dandy feature called blacklist for those people wonderful enough to tag their posts.  Also there is this little feature called unfollow which I employ more liberally now, I used to let some things slide but mo longer.  As I said this is my happy space and I am intent on keeping it that way.

That being said, I stay away from all drama and gossip and I mean from all the fandoms I follow, because let’s face it, I follow quite a few.  

I want all my followers to know that if I ever say something that offends or something the like please come to me.  I am not perfect, very far from it and if I am doing something of the such I want to take the steps to correct it. It is never my intention to make anyone feel uncomfortable.  

Also I want you all to know that if any of you need someone to talk to about anything I am here for you, no matter what it is.  Whatever you share with me is safe with me and stays between us.

I’m sick and tired of seeing people I care about be bullied on this site and either leaving it or altering the way the behave on this site. Things shouldn’t have to come to this.

As  always I am here for all you guys no matter what, you are all very near and dear to me.

So sorry this took me so long to post but I have been doing bad in terms of mental health lately and trying to balance school with work and other things. Anyways, the rules are as follows:

Winner:

spot in my updates tab

unlimited promos through may

all my love

Runner up (there will be more than one if this gets a lot of notes)

spot in my updates tab

three promos through may

my undying friendship