Elijah, dude, your casual indifference about the shit your brother stirs kinda sorta makes you ineligible to judge whether Stefan is right to want his Elena back or in fact anyone's life decisions at this moment.
Most importantly there's a difference in plotting WITH the person you love about getting her OUT of her predicament in order for her to be free to be YOUR Katerina and whatever, and pushing and forcing the person you love into BECOMING your Elena when you have not created THE SAFE ENVIRONMENT FOR HER TO BECOME SHE.
So that's that.















