#hhhhhu

so thank you again!! i think im sick but im feeling much better. 💓

yeah i was just talking about this with my girlfriend and they said the exact same thing and it's just really weird and kind of transparent to me. i've seen like two (2) posts saying that you can't be femme if you hate butches or find them gross but no one's questioning femmes that feel neutral towards butches and like... i'm not trying to pit butches and femmes against each other, that's the last thing i want to do bc i feel solidarity towards both (and those lesbians who identify with neither). it just sounds really iffy to me when people suddenly question the lesbianism or even (connection to) womanhood of a butch who's into other butches. to me it just sounds like those people (subconsciously?) don't think that butches are women/women-aligned? like... it just sounds an awful lot like claiming that femininity is equal to womanhood and "masculine" women aren't really women or are just observed and questioned waaaay more easily than others and sometimes it's just. exhausting. like it's okay to have a type so like. a butch who's into butches is a lesbian who's into other women/women-aligned people. it's just that?

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