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the signs that point to a manipulator VII
28. he sees himself as a predator
And I still consider him otherwise...
But this said, he is not totally wrong. He lurks here, in the bushes, hunting the empath without conscience or remorse for the pain he could cause. He needs to eat energy! And to him it is only natureâs order that the strong are the hunters when the weak are the hunted.
But the laws of the jungle are antithetic to civilization and progress. Political parties founded exclusively by his kind always talk about going backwards, to a time when it felt good living at othersâ expenses. With his Neanderthal mind, dooming the weak to an early grave, he is a hindrance to progress. Because the physically weak or the person born on the wrong side of the railroad, can easily be the smarter, the inventor, the creative mind, the genius, the spiritual guide, the wise... the one who will have humanity go forward with him.
If we succeeded in getting out of the Middle-Age it is in spite of the manipulator. Not thanks to him.
And itâs no coincidence, to my mind, if, since he has made a huge comeback these last thirty years, we turn back to the good old days of economic servitude and pandemic. Because too many manipulators in power means a massive return of corruption, incompetence, entitlement, lies and exploitation.
The manipulator sees us as preys and underestimates us. Underestimates the courage and abnegation of those who can fight for a cause bigger than themselves or who fight for those they love.
A difference between the manipulator and the predator, though, is that the manipulator prefers to stay in the shade, when the society isnât favourable to his kind. Whereas a tiger doesnât hide his stripes. In North Korea or other China, on the contrary, I imagine itâs party time everyday for a manipulator. And I canât fathom the hell it must be for the minority of empathetic people there.
But if Iâm right about the worldâs evolution, this hiding wonât last long. And the sooner the better, because if 100% of manipulators know their âeat and be eatenâ game, a very few percentage of good people are aware of the fight and what is at stake. Most of the time, this minority is composed by ex-victims.
Quite easy and no sport, then, to hunt when the antelope doesnât know her life is on the line.
Once you know where to look, on the contrary, itâs often child play to detect them.
29. he has a paranoid tendency
Well of course, just imagine! We all have this tendency to put our own way of thinking is the otherâs mind. And this makes us, empathetic people, more prone to naivete, jumping bambis in the sunset and in the crossfire of automatic guns.
But this makes him paranoid. Others want to rob him, have no conscience, will betray him, will cheat on him...
The world is full of bad guys, he knows it. And the manipulator only sleeps with one eye open. Or canât sleep at all.
30. he doesnât like rules
Rules are for the weak, he thinks. If he can despise or rape them, itâs fine. If he can change them in his own interest, itâs better still.
There are too many times when he must pretend to respect the rules. And itâs exhausting.
31. he is greedy and confuses success with financial success
Of course! For him everything turns around looks, power and money. And what is dangerous is when the way he feels become the dominant philosophy. I guess there is only a certain amount of manipulators a society can bear at its head, in companies and politics, before we spiral down in a vicious circle. Because the manipulator will change the mentalities to favour his kind, making it easier for others manipulators to climb, who in turn will aggravate the mentalities...
For ten years, I have this feeling that the world is going faster and faster in manipulation land. Which means darker and darker. And I fear weâll have to touch the bottom before it gets better.
This overwhelming mentality contributes to the fact that so many good people feel bad, can feel like  they are failing if they concentrate on being a good parent, or a just teacher or a faithful spouse. Hit again and again by these golden and superficial lives on the social media, most good people can get depressed.
The manipulator is also greedy. His overinflated ego is always whispering him he deserves more. And this answers the question I had, as a good naive empathetic person: why would a billionaire choose to paint his tenth swimming pool with god instead of raising wages?
Because he deserves it and the others donât deserve anything more than the bare minimum to survive and be able to work for him.
So of course, to avoid the possibility that poor people get to the pitchforks and attack his bunker, heâll give to charities, elegant way of talking with his social peers about the wellness of the peasants around appetizers. And also, to save taxes. And the rich manipulator will always prefer this way of giving money, which allows him to control where it goes, preferably in causes more glamour and selling than repairing roads and will also allow him to build a nice philanthropic image for himself. Also, it will help sustain an economic system that favours him. Because in reality, a good economic system, in a rich democracy, is the one where everybody pays his just amount of taxes and everybody can earn a fair wage, one that you can live on. Where, in fact, nobody should need charity.
Also, the internal vacuum of the manipulator is a bottomless pit that encourages him to get always more. The manipulator isnât Iron Man, the philanthropist superhero but Pac Man: always hungry, never satisfied.
And he doesnât care if the planet would die of it. Because as the delectable Duchess of Windsor would have said: âone is never rich enoughâ.
32. he divides and conquers
He is a master of triangulation, this art which consists in using a third person in the toxic relations he has with you. He will use this other person against you, having told him lies where he is the victim. Or have you understand that this person thinks you are wrong. And have you hate him in the process.
On his chess board, he is the king or the queen and others are pawns.
His hot-air-balloon ego is fragile and he is a coward in confrontation where the adversary isnât weak and could fight back He will, in this case, send somebody else to do the dirty job.
In some extreme cases, the manipulator can cut you totally from your friends and family. Heâll act like itâs you and him in a fortress, having you believe that everybody else is mean. Enclosed in the tower, the victim is more powerless than ever.
(to be continued...)
Ich fahre nachts alleine durch die Stadt und höre Lieder wie "Helium" von Sia, singe laut mit und weine. In der Gegenwart anderer wĂŒrde ich es mir nicht trauen, geschweige denn ĂŒber diese Aktion reden, die ich doch mindesten 1x die Woche mache. Doch niemand weiĂ es. Ăber welche Dinge ich TrĂ€nen vergieĂe, ĂŒber Verflossene, Freunde, Alltagsprobleme oder einfach ĂŒber die Tatsache, dass ich es mir nicht trauen wĂŒrde dies vor meinen besten Freunden zu tun. Dabei kommen mir oft Gedanken in den Kopf, die ich eigl nicht aussprechen möchte, sie mir doch so nah erscheinen, dass ich sie in meiner Phantasie schon lĂ€ngst getan hab.. Insgeheim hoffe ich dass das keiner bemerkt. Stets ein LĂ€cheln auf den Lippen, einen lustigen Spruch auf den Lippen. Doch von innen, von innen zerbreche ich an meinen Gedanken, die ich Pflege, zwar nicht jeden Tag aber immer öfter. Und Ăfter heiĂt dass es fĂŒr mich vorstellbarer wird diese umzusetzen. Solche Gedanken hat jeder in irgendeiner Phase des Lebens, nur warum ich gerade jetzt, es gab schon schlimmere Zeiten in meinem Leben. Aber auch bessere...