#22 “Always the Second Best”
Some people are torn between two options, whether to go right or left. Black or White. Yes or No. They seem to be hesitant of the things that they really want the reason that they provide choices for their convenience. For them to see which is BETTER or Who is better!
Most of us has always been a victim of being an option, being one of the choices. Always come up with an A or B, X or Y, 1 or 2. Always been the second best, never been choose. And with all of these, I wonder how can we even be the first choice wherein even if we tried to give our all, we’ve been stuck at the second place. These instance can lower confidence and self-esteem which can even lead to depression for some. We all know that losing is part of every game but we should all remember that in every game everyone aims winning!
Ever been in a place wherein your professor choose your classmate over you to be the class president knowing that you have the capabilities to perform such? with relates to job, have you ever been an option over new trainees for promotion even if you have stayed more than a year with them? Have you ever been the second best for one person you admire?
If yes, let me remind you sweetheart that not all things are worth fighting for, some are worth surrendering cause it will lead you to better opportunities that will build you as a person that you always aim to be. You don't have to compete with anyone be the best version of yourself, open up to new possibilities and change for the better. Don't let negativity stood in your doorway waiting for you to make a move. Breathe in and make your way towards being the first choice! Think of it like this, some things or some people are not meant to be in your life because there's someone better along the way, it happens for a reason that you might not be able to meet him/her if you push yourself to the person you admire today.
Take away for everyone: The waiting season just started, you just have to wait for the right timing when everything works out in favor of what you wanted wherein you will be the the first choice among anyone. Just show off what you've got. You're not alone, been there done that! Surprise them!
