the harsh side of losing.
I know we have all had that feeling of losing . weather its been a game ,A job, a relationship or even a test. I know the feeling has not exactly been easy, as human beings we all been down that road before. it's only normal that we do. it kind feels like somebody hit us with a knife because it hurts just like that. we get all involved in this certain thing, so once we lose at this accepting that we lost is one of the hardest feelings. we sometimes start to doubt ourself, and even our ability to wanna do it again, or even think about doing it.When your mind is set on a certain things you are going to do, and you lose at this you start to question yourself as a human being. you start to wonder your worth sometimes even, by comparing yourself to people or even things. when you are losing you are not thinking with your knowledge of what you can do next time to prevent yourself from losing ,or even doing a better job next time. when losing we start to think of harsh reality of some things,
which is normal as human beings. Even looking ahead to the future is something we start to doubt or even question. I think its one of the most common things that most people think of all these things. we don't realize that losing only makes us stronger, by next time thinking of how we can do it better or even be successful next time. we don't think of maybe we weren't suppose we win because of a reason or many reasons.one of the important key factors people forget that maybe by taking baby steps we can figure out what can I do better next time.
we can even start to get our minds to switch to different attitude, so that we wont think so negative of by loosing something,or a situation. maybe by using our knowledge we can be happier thinking about winning instead of losing. sometimes we even don't realize that although we may have lost in the end we really won, because the person who gave it they all is who won in the end. we never think about these things when thinking about loosing. as human beings we are only what our feelings, and minds tell us what we are. we tend to over look the small facts of loosing, and don't look at the big facts that make us become successful in winning as human beings.
