#guysmustlearn

Mr. Keen

Mr. Keen and I met while I was out with Queen of Silks in the lead up to Christmas.  It had been a busy night with perhaps a few too many glasses of wine consumed, so I may or may not have had some wine goggles on.. Anyway, Mr. Keen and I had been snogging almost all night (as you do when you're that merry and it's nearly Christmas).. I'm sure there had been mistletoe somewhere in the vicinity...

He took my number and we exchanged a few texts over the next few days - they were funny and he seemed cool.  I remember him being tall, dark and ok looking - but as is my fashion - a really nice guy. He asked for a date (a few times because I accidentally kept forgetting to answer the question - honestly!) but it just seems to have made him more keen!  

**I am learning some serious magic here.   I'm having texts with a few guys I've met out/ through friends/ online, and the more flippant I am, or the more fun/ funny/ couldn't care, the more they are telling me they want a relationship (not indicating with me necessarily, just that they are serious about getting serious), the more they text, the more they ask me out!!! WHO KNEW! lol.. and I am having a BALL! 

So eventually we met for a drink yesterday and there was a bit of a problem with his phone so timings and places got muddled up.. slightly irritating being left to stand in the freezing cold for 20 minutes and then he made us walk 10 minutes down the road to a bar when there were about 5 we passed along the way.. I suspected it was because he was trying to get closer to where his car was parked so he didn't have far to walk after the drinks, or the bar was cheap for his pocket.  I made a joke of it being for his car and he assured me it wasn't. I'm still not sure I believe him but hey-ho, I'm not one to let it ruin my night... just make a mental note for when I am assessing whether to date him again or not.

At first I wasn't feeling it. I thought we might be too different but as we started finding common ground, things looked up a bit.  We chatted about travelling for the most part and then he asked if I was dating.  I told him I'd been on one on the weekend (to the sports game) and he kind of got defeated and said I probably thought this was a lame date. I told him no, it's a quick get together and I look for connection more anyway.  I then also reminded him that he didn't know what this guy was offering and how I felt about that.. then he completely turned around.. He started telling me how he wants to see me again and we can go have a great date and he'll raise his game and and and.... it was quite something but it seemed like it was from a genuine place and I like that he's so open and honest.  Maybe he's not totally refined and might need a bit of teaching/ guidance, but you know, I believe there's opportunity for love to grow anywhere.  And as I said to him, I'm dating with a variety of people because you never know where you'll find it.

As it came time to go he said he'd walk the opposite way to me at the door - I mentioned his car again and he quickly backtracked realising he sounded totally ungentlemanly and then said he would walk me to the station.. I told him he really didn't need to (mock damsel in distress), but he insisted and to be honest, I'm not going to stop a man doing the right thing.  See what I mean about needing guidance.. I think he may not have been on many dates/ used to girls who accept whatever a guy will give them...