What I'm telling my friends in 2021 about getting together... . "I'll have to get back to you on that. I never know what the day brings with kids&moods.Kind of in hibernation study and write mode. Gotta get this book finished asap and launch some income making stuff like astrology, light work, virtual/private/small dance &/or preschool. Hurrying to get ahead and published cause I know once I go back to work I risk losing my inspiration. 😭 I'm treating it like a job/school right now and very seriously to the point of being ok with shutdowns and sacrificing a social life for timebeing. Also we have to move in a couple months so packing up house in organized manner so unpacking isn't so stressful in a new place. Lots going on. Might rent temporarily til we can get better credit and more saved up to buy in a nicer area. I dunno. Leaving it up to universe and trying to go with the flow for once (remember how anal I used to be?!)... we could do a video chat while I do this or I could schedule a tentative in a couple weeks when I'm most likely ovulating and on a manic high and wanting to socialize vs full moon/pms/mercury retrograde & feeling low/cranky/tired? I'm starting to realize a woman's cycle is a lot like bi polar. 🤣Ups and downs which is why we need to go into our huts. I would love to chat at least this week it's actually perfect time for woman bonding! Or yeah if weather gets nicer maybe we can take a walk or something. I think it's also cold af for baby so we haven't even been doing that much recently. Just short spurts in backyard and ellie is so unpredictable with her moods still I can never stick to a time. Ugh sorry 2 kids has kind of turned me into a bad friend. :-/ plus with trying to work it out with scott... constant unlearning practice. I know writing isn't most peeps' preferred communication style or love language though it's mine and I wanna meet in the middle as much as possible because I value your friendship so lmk what you're open to. I'm prioritizing play dates now so at least girls can get socialization but adult chat would be awesome if and when doable!" . Or something like that. . #motherhooduncensored #truefriendships #growthmind (at Portland, Oregon) https://www.instagram.com/p/CMs_lQkFH4L/?igshid=1jz0zfs6moh4m