Jul 25, 2024
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#i was 1000% like this when i was younger#ha! hahahaha#formerly a Leftįµį“¹ then grew as a Rightįµį“¹#good discussions#Right initiated a tricky conversation that needed to happen confronting Left with realistic expectations + suggesting a dating model#that is ACCESSIBLE + realistic + aligned to suit Left most naturally (full assumption that Right is NOT just pandering for a āyesā here)#Lefty is getting their shit absolutely rocked; they have assumptions of what a relationship looks like + are unconvinced that#changeāCHANGE. change is worth pursuing#i agonized over starting every relationship iāve been in Except For One#āi canāt make you happyā / ādating me will not last and you WILL be changedā#/ āi cannot justify entering a situation where i provide you with everything i am and you delude yourself from a future without meā#god i was so raw/intense ;ā; but BUT. BUT it is BETTER to aggressively rip into every possibility than to run from character development#RIGHT AT THE END WHEN RIGHT SAID āNOā??? hOLY **SHIT**#MMRHRDHSHDHEHNR#(assuming thereās no mind games to pressure Left into making rushed judgements which it doesnāt really seem to be the case)#Itās giving āiām not waiting for you to be ready for a committed relationship. as far as i can see weāre already acting like oneā#āAND ILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE IF THIS ISNT GOING ANYWHERE DAMN ITā AAAAHHHH I CANT LIVE LIKE THIS#literacy#dating and freedom
