#goaldirectedness

So you have set you mind to make some sort of change?

You want your life to be different, so you have thought of the things that you could be, do and have?

You might have even set some intentions around all of this,

GREAT!!

Congratulations, you have actually done way more already that the average punter – choosing to live your life consciously and deliberately.  This is truly a wonderful journey that you are now on, one filled with creativity, wonder and MAGIC

Unless,

Unless?

Yes, unless you make the decision that you are going to bring awareness to HOW you are going to treat yourself on the journey towards your highest aspirations, because it is not only what you do, it’s also how you do it, that will make the difference to how you FEEL on your journey!!

When looking back on my life, I see that I have been very conscientious in the achievement of my goals, really if I haven’t achieved it its because I haven’t truly set my mind towards the realisation of the goal.  I don’t say this to impress you, but to give weight to what I am about to say…..

Despite achieving everything that I have set out to achieve, and more, this has not been the root cause of happiness. In fact, with increasing responsibilities and obligations, at times it has seemed like the root cause of my UNHAPPINESS!

It has not been kicking goals and box ticking that has allowed me to step into a life of ease and flow, where I truly get to live my passion and purpose,

No.

The single most important step towards happiness has been for me to consider the ESSENCE of what it is that I am aiming for – the goal within the goal, within the goal, within the goal.  Yes deep down the rabbit hole to the CORE of my being, there lies a true calling and reason for my being and doing

For me?

Why thank you for asking!!

For ME this is Freedom!

Freedom, period.  You could go on the say emotional freedom, freedom of expression, creative freedom, financial freedom – yes, I mean all of this and likely way more than I could possibly fully articulate.

It was only when I realised that it is my drive towards freedom that has been my main driver, the deep current that has shaped my decision making, even when I didn’t really know this to be the case, that I truly started to TRANSFORM my relationship with my aspirations,

And more importantly,

My relationship with MYSELF!!!

It was really only when I could fully embrace and accept that my main driver is freedom that I could truly begin to make the right decisions (for me) and change the single most important aspect of my experience:

My relationship with the NOW.

Where I could allow, rather than PUSH.

Where I could BE, rather than feel like I need to be doing all the time.

Where I could truly accept that everything really is perfect.

 The deeper currents of your being

We all have a deep current that is guiding each and every one of us, like the deep and unseen currents that drive the waters of the ocean around the globe.  At some point we have learned to SWIM AGAINST this current!? If you have ever tried to pit yourself against the ocean you just know who is going to win, and yet we so often do this with the deep currents of our lives.

Well surely it is obvious that you are making a rod for your own back!  Surely it is evident that it is in fact FUTILE – (please don’t make me use my Borg reference here to reinforce this point!!)

Ok, it has to happen

Resistance, is indeed futile!  And likely even more compelling to you might be the fact that it is PAINFUL and will contribute to the perpetuation of your unhappiness and dissatisfaction with your life,

No matter what you achieve,

No matter how successful you are in kicking those goals,

Until you begin to tune into the reason WHY you are doing all of these things, to recognise your own deep current that is the TRUE DRIVER of everything that you do, then life will only ever feel robotic and disconnected,

Because you are in fact robotic and disconnected!

Moving through life according to what you THINK is important, rather than truly acting on what IS important.

Remaining on automatic pilot, rather than tapping into your authentic self, which is the well-spring of joyful living.

You remain disconnected from yourself and that which matters MOST to you in your life, and THAT my friend is a TRAVESTY!  This is not something I want for you, because this kind of living is soulness and feels pointless, and there is just so much MORE to experience in life,

When you can appreciate what is truly driving you and using THIS as your decision making filter:  is this ultimately leading me towards freedom (insert your own value here!)?

Yes,

Or,

No.

Simple!

So if you have not done so already, please make the commitment to yourself to begin to tap into the DEEPER current that is driving you in your life – the ultimate reason why you do ANYTHING!  It is only then that you can start to make the right decisions (for you) and step into a life that is truly rewarding and a joy to behold. 

THIS is what I want for you, to be able to KNOW YOURSELF that much more such that you can set to work – the REAL WORK – that you are here to do.  To bring your unique self into the world more and more, such that you can shine like the star you were born to be!!

Many blessings and magic to you today

As always, remember that Bodhi starts with you

Toni-Anne

PS: How many times in your life have you had the chance to have a second bite at the carrot? cherry? or is it cake?  I don't know, but anyway, how many times do you get a second chance to take a lost OPPORTUNITY,

one that you just know you should have taken the first time,

that you then know you absolutely NEED to take if it were to be offered up again!!

Well this is EXACTLY the position you are in today - with the opportunity to jump into Your life, be design - our FREE WORKSHOP that offers up the framework for consciously and deliberately creating your fabulous and best life!

We got rained out yesterday and so completed only HALF of the workshop and so I am opening it up again to those who were kicking themselves for having missed it the first time!

If that was you, or if you are hearing about it now for the first time, make sure you don't miss this opportunity and jump on it today!

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