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Falling in love is easy to do, almost effortless, but losing that loving feeling is not that hard to do, either.
Consciously or unconsciously, they believe love is a sensation that is based on a physical and emotional attraction, that magically, spontaneously, generates when your soulmate appears. And just as easily, it can spontaneously degenerate when the magic “just isn’t there” anymore. You fall in love, and you can fall out of love.
When a relationship is new, it is fun and enjoyable to court or be courted. In the beginning, we are constantly thinking about the new person in our life, wanting to spend all of our time with them and share new experiences together. We want to show how we feel by getting cards or flowers or just sending a cute text message.
It is a choice to see the good in our partner every day, rather than focusing on the negative things that bother us. We have to accept them and love them as they are. If we go into a relationship thinking we can change someone, we are setting our relationship and ourselves up to fail. We all have flaws and quirks and are weird in some ways. Accepting those differences is part of love.
Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another’s "Goodness".
If love comes from appreciating goodness, it needn’t just happen, you can make it happen. Love is active. You can create it. Just focus on the good in the other person, and yes... everyone has some. If you can do this easily, you’ll love easily.
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