#giftpreparation

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Many people have mistaken the core value of "meaningful gift", since most of them think that a gift can only be called meaningful if it is expensive enough, difficult to find or make, and maybe some of them might think it must be brought from somewhere far.. Hmm, is it?

The truth is, everything around you can become a meaningful gift, for however simple the gift may seem.

How come?

Well, we have a theory for that :D (ps : even though this theory is derived from our observation through hundreds of customers and orders, still you should consider another source of knowledge that can enrich your gift-giving knowledge :) )

So, we have listed 5 things that you must think thoroughly when you are preparing a gift..

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First, WHO?

When we are talking about "who will receive the gift?", the answer is not as simple as "my girlfriend" or "my mother" etc. We already gathered some key points related with this very 1st and most important thing in making your gift becomes more valuable. This "who" point talks about...

- The personality/character of the person

Your girlfriend has different character from your best friend's girlfriend, your mother has different personality from your neighbor's mom, that is why it is absolutely important to dig more about their personality when you are preparing the gift. Well, it will be so much easier if you know the person personally, but if not, don't worry ! :) cause you can observe their personality from their horoscope, MBTI test, or the way they interact with other people through their social media. In this case, being overly curious for awhile is forgivable. Hehe *peace!

- The age

Of course you already acknowledge that age is an important factor, but still we must write it on this list because the case might be different. For instance, two years ago, you had a girlfriend who is in the same age with you, but apparently you broke up with her and got another one who is way much younger than her, like 5 years younger than you. The 'who' factor is still the same : "your girlfriend". But if you think deeper, will both of them like the same gift? remembering that the age gap was quite far. Your young girlfriend might love something cuter while your fellow-age girlfriend might appreciate something that she can wear. So, always think twice when you are choosing the gift.

- Education/professional background

Why does education/professional background count? well, because sometimes, apart from their personal character and their age, people may change their behavior/predilection once they are already accustomed to their professional world. For example, your college sweetheart was actually a sweet girl from the start, since she love to be showered with your romantic gestures and surprises. But times went by until she finally got into an accountant office and all of a sudden, she'd prefer a straightforward gift which doesn't interfere her daily workloads, or maybe something that can ease her tiredness after work.

- Daily activities/Hobby

Ok this point needs no explanation because hobby is a quantitative thing that you can see from your own eyes.

- The relationship with you

At glance this point may seem clear enough while actually, some people still can't differentiate someone's relationship position in their life. For example : you may consider to give your girlfriend something expensive like jewelry, branded bags or branded shoes. Well, nothing is wrong from that as long as you have money. But you still need to consider that she is not your wife, and your expensive gift will indirectly put a 'materialistic value' into your girl friend's mind. She might expect more expensive gift in the next occasion, and by then your savings will be doomed. Another example also, you must consider to differentiate the kind of appropriate gift for your crush, and for your girlfriend/boyfriend. 

wow.. so many points on who~

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Second, WHAT

There are two sub-factors of what that you must always consider :

- Utilitarian purpose

- Memorabilia purpose

Both are actually okay, but some people prefer something that they can use, while some others prefer something more memorable. You can conclude it after you already acknowledge deeply the first point : "WHO". :)

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Third, WHERE and WHEN

Here we want to make sure you know that the place and the timing where the gift is given is very important since it creates the moment. Once you mess with the moment, the gift may become less valuable in the receiver's memories.

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Fourth, HOW

The first thing that pops out in your mind about this fourth point may be some kind of gift-making process. Hmm, actually it can be counted, but not every gift should be crafted personally, so the gift-making process can't be generalized into any kind of gift. "HOW" here has several categories that you must consider thoroughly :

- The inside and outside packaging

Whether you make the gift your own or you bought it from the store, it is very important to wrap it nicely inside and out so people will appreciate your effort in preparing it. :)

- The cards/wording that accompany the gift

A gift without a card, is like a sky with only a moon, without a stars.. Some people may think that card is a trivial stuff within the gift, while actually, the words written on the card is something that can give more soul into the gift. So, spare your time to prepare your own words, and then write it down on the card. When you can't give something personally made for your beloved one, your hand-writings are the answer to make the gift becomes more personal and valuable. And to remind you once again, always use your handwriting!

- The way it is given

So, should you throw a big surprise to make the gift becomes more valuable? Or should you hire someone to create scenes for your gift-giving moments?

Hmm.

The answer is... no. The way the gift is given is actually as simple as your gesture. For however cool or indifferent someone is, she/he will know whether you are sincere in your gift or not. Put your whole attention and affection into your gift-giving moment, and let them know how valuable she/he is in your life.

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And...

the last thing that might be helpful for you is...

LET IT GO.

do not expect any kind of response from the gift receiver.

You already done a great effort in preparing it, but you can't make anyone responding to your gift the way you expected. Just let them be and be proud of yourself for your own effort to express your love towards him/her. Remember also, expectation kills and it can ruin your moment.

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Okay then, so it is! We hope this first guide will help you prepare a better, more memorable gift. If you have any questions, please don't mind to ask on our ask column or just contact our instagram.

Our next post will talk about gift-giving guide for your crush.

See you again soon! <3