20. JUDGEMENT : is your muse forgiving of themselves ? how about of others who wrong them ?
tarot headcanon questions ––– CLOSED.
harlowe has learned over the years to forgive themselves and that it’s okay to make mistakes . she’s learned the difference between being tough on herself vs being unforgiving to oneself . holding onto past mistakes doesn’t make them do better , it causes them to hyperfixate and pick apart any other issues they might’ve missed before and blame themselves for it .
as for others who wrong them ? that’s a little more ... complicated . while harlowe is capable of forgiving , they are a firm believer that the person has to EARN that forgiveness . apologizing is always a first step but they’ve realized that they don’t always need to accept it and forgive them . they can acknowledge it and let the person know that they need time .