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I’m tired of openly commenting on stuff, and then having men send me a heartfelt “I agree” or “your point of view is interesting”. Then why can’t you point that in a like or in a public comment? Why should your support be private?

“Oh, but nowadays women interpret everything as harassment or creepiness! We can’t comment on anything!”

Look, if you know what you’re saying could be interpreted as harassment, then you’re probably right not to leave that “nice pair of tits” in a woman’s message box (publicly or privately) anyway. But you can make a normal remark, right? Mirror other respectful comments you see. I promise your manhood won’t shrink. You won’t be emasculated by having a simple conversation with a woman or by—Heaven forbid!—agreeing with her or acknowledging she worded a concern of yours like no one you ever saw.

Also, PLEASE bear in mind: not every human interaction is (or should be) sexual by nature. If that’s what you fear, do know that we don’t take every compliment as a declaration of love or sexual attraction, and people who do that are sorely misguided.