You cannot be a whale and be pretty. Alternatively, you cannot be a twig and be pretty. You know what makes you pretty? Giving a shit about your health and not being obese or twiglike. Both have very serious side effects to your health and could shorten your life considerably. Sorry but if i am with someone, they have to be healthy because i want a long life with them. I don't want o live an extra 20 years on them because they couldn't manage eating the right amount of food. It is a choice. Every single person can take care of themselves and be a healthy weight. Having 10 or 15 extra pounds won't hurt. But when you are 50+ pounds overweight, you need to start watching your weight. It is just not healthy. Just like being a few pounds underweight isn't bad. but when you start being 30+ pounds underweight, you need to start eating more. Fat and skinny are both ugly as shit. All anyone wants is for you to look healthy. Sorry if this offended anyone but i really needed to share my views on this.