#frotteurism

frotteurism / frotteuristic disorder

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the act of touching or rubbing one's genitals up against another person in a sexual manner without their consent, to derive sexual pleasure or reach orgasm. (source)

anti-c for noncon contact

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The human heart is an addiction factory, and as with anything else, there are people who are addicted to physical touch. As with all addictions, it is best for the addict to avoid the substance for the rest of their life. These are methods touch addict may wish to implement. Remember, these methods serve to as much direct, personal benefit to addicts themselves as to those who insist on making physical contact with them.

Simply ask them to stop touching you. Say, “No means no,” or threaten litigation if they do not stop.

Say, “I’m touch averse,” whenever anyone attempts to touch you.

Feign discomfort by letting out frustrated groans.

Question whether you and someone else touching you know each other well enough to actually be touching in the manner they insist upon. This would be more difficult with family members, but with almost anyone else it will work to some degree.

Keep your hands at your sides to let them know you do not want them to physically touch you in whatever manner they insist upon.

A social evil. A curse....

(ANY KIND OF MISTAKE MAY BE EXCUSED)

We love concerts, we have to travel by public transport. And we meet the 'Frotteurs'. The one who 'touches' or 'rubs'  and derives a certain sense of sexual pleasure.This is very common in crowded area. Intentional touching is so common and even if a genuine honest person by mistake touches us we intepret it in a bad way. Who is to blame here? The girl? The boy? The society? We have kept our mouths shut for years, men and women both. And now with a minimal provocation our mind thinks the worst. In name of culture we have so much tried to tame ourselves that now we just jump  to conclusions, we get involved in riots without knowing anything, we participate in violence- verbal, physical. Why? We are never taught that. We do that because we have been always shunned. We have never been told why bad words are bad, they just are. And we all know how much the 'bad side' of the world attracts us. We are bad people, we  never wanted to be. We just never knew what bad is. And in the pursuit of finding 'bad', we were so knee deep in it that we couldn't be good again. Froteurism is bad. It is no less than molestation. It affects the victim and all the silent spectators. Don't be silent. Speak. The world is filled with good people, but they are silent. Silence isn't always gold. Our silence fuels the loudness of the bad.