#friendsadvice

This will be long and might be winding but the most important thing i want you to get from this is you are more than enough.

By now, some of you might have skipped this post, or raised your left brow, or gave me that antagonist smirk. Little will scroll to read more. For those who continued to read, thank you. You can roll your eyes all you want but i want you to realize by the end of this that nothing is wrong with you. You are more than enough.

You’ve had your share of rough times. It is very hard to be the one who loves too much. The one who would give up her world to share the world of the one she loves. I get you. I understand you. People who has not experienced this kind of love will mock you, raise a brow. They would misinterpret. But you needn’t change. It’s who you are.

You are the one who worries what others say. You know people around you talk behind your back, but you never talk back. You are the one who thinks too much of other’s welfare but yours. You are the ‘to the rescue’ type who never hesitate to intrude your love ones’ life. And you get hurt because of this. Your heart is broken many times because you help even if no one asks you. You give your time because you want to.

Despite this, you are not appreciated. You are judged. People see you as annoying little bitch who knows no boundaries. You are called the one who hold no bars. Too honest, boastful, hero-wannabe, proud, superior, know-it-all. And you let those words get to you. You shrink and hide.

Get up woman. Don’t let them do this to you. You know yourself, you love yourself for it. If they don’t appreciate you for it, that is not your problem. You need to understand that just because they don’t like how you do things mean something is wrong with you. You are perfectly you, there is definitely nothing wrong with that. Erase the notion that you are unlikely to have friends just because some throw hurtful names to you. Never ever think no one can love you. There is. Always.

Let me share where the problem blossoms. You are never the problem. It’s the people who are quick to judge just because you can love more than they can. It’s those people who loves themselves more that don’t understand and question why a girl like you can love selflessly.

Give yourself more credit. And a favor. Step forward and leave those people behind. It will not be easy. It will hurt everyday. But know that you will find someone who will love you back equally or even more. Because truthfully speaking, you deserve more. Forget about them and move forward.

You are unique. You are different. Stop comparing yourself to anyone. They will never be you and you them. Because each one is raised differently, have diverse experiences, no one will ever be the same. You might not be as lovable as you want to be but that doesn’t mean you deserve any less. You are equally as deserving as anyone. No one is better than the other.

Look at yourself in the mirror. Smile, because you are amazingly you. You have flaws? Smile, it makes you different. Different is beautiful. You’re a few pounds more or a pound less? Smile, you are just perfectly fit. Laugh lines? Smile, you’ve had a fulfilling life. Scars? Embrace it and smile. You are you!

The love you can get is equal to the love you can give to yourself. You are worth it! Make it your mantra. Tell yourself everyday that you are worth it. It is true, you are.

So continue to be just you are – straightforward, funny, witty, shy, proud, smart, brilliant, amazing, beautiful. And yes, YOU ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH.