#fmtickling

My session with @littleleesblog

I am writing this on my train ride home and I am ABSOLUTELY ELATED I had so much fun at my first official session!

Me and @littleleesblog have been friends on this app for a little while now. When we found out we lived in the same state, we just KNEW we had to meet up. And I sure am glad I did!

We started off the day at the mall, where we looked around random stores to see all the cool stuff the mall had to offer. We stopped in a bunch of cool places, but the most fun for me was getting to know my friend a little bit better! We spent about an hour and a half or so looking around and learning more about each other. After we were done, we made our way back to our hotel to set up.

This little cutie was just begging to be tied up once we got there; we tried out the Stocks I got (they worked very very well) before heading out to get a few more things.

The actual session was more fun than I could’ve anticipated! Our first little bit was me, exploring all her tickle spots before we left to pick up some paints. After we got back, it was my turn to get tied down. She went to town painting all of these beautiful flowers and fruits. (She also wrote a few lies on me, but we’ll see if she wants the world to see that.) When it was my turn to paint her, I took a more abstract approach, focusing on how the painting feels to the canvas.

She then made the mistake of letting me tie her back down, where I got to go to town on this cutie. My absolute favorite part about tickling her was just how squeaky she was; every time I would hit a tickle spot, she would tense up all of her muscles in the absolute most adorable fashion. We spent the last little bit of time with some off camera play that was a lovely way to wrap up our time together.

Overall, I would 100% recommend a session at your earliest convenience. Not only that, I implore as many of you as possible to try to seek the opportunity to play with the fantastic and wonderful and brutally ticklish @littleleesblog ! In fact, I’m already going through withdrawals from her adorable tummy.

The more I've committed to really analyzing my interest in tickle torture, the more obvious it's become to me how male-centered the market for tickle torture material is.

I am a switch at heart, but I do have a slight preference for F/M content. But I've noticed a real gap between what attracts me to F/M tickle torture and what the market for such content provides.

My infatuation with being tickle tortured by a woman, I've found, is almost entirely dependent on how much she gets off on the sadism of it. I'm drawn to the idea of a woman feeling intimate enough and caring enough to commit to the idea of breaking my will and my mind through the application of tickling (or other pleasurable sensations). Of her getting to know my mind and body well enough to truly torture both of them right to the edge. My interest in all of this is directly related to hers.

But when I try to find good f/m content, it just seems so obvious that my understanding of this kink is not what this market is catering to. Where my obsession with f/m tickling is centered on the experience of the 'ler, almost all of the material I can find clearly centers the guy's experience. That's not to say the women aren't willing participants or having a good time, but it's the dude who by and large ends up getting off on it (in fact a huge portion of these videos end with the guy literally getting off on it). The guy is the one who's depicted as being "into it."

There are some exceptions. I dearly love Yahara's work at X-feathers, and if any of this resonates with you you should check it out. You can tell every time she tortures a helpless guy that she's doing it because SHE likes it, not because HE does. His desires are immaterial, she's going to do what she wants until she's satisfied and that's that. He's an object of her pleasure, not the other way around.

But work like hers is the exception that proves the rule. Unless there's some treasure trove of female-centric f/m stuff out there, I'm just more and more convinced it doesn't exist. And if that's true then I suppose what I'm saying is maybe there are two different species of f/m tickle kinks.

I'm excited by the thought of a woman being excited by torturing me. I guess maybe that's not the same thing as being excited by a woman torturing me.