Step 1 - Download Steam (https://store.steampowered.com/)

Step 2 - Buy Football Manager (there is a free demo version but you need the full version to add the women’s database to it)

Step 3 - Add the women’s database to the game, these videos are helpful in figuring out how to do that:  

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JxXHkfDL_aU&t=48s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3B_wUUjIW9g&t=188s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vvGbtSL_hyo

Step 4 - Enable the women’s database when your setting up your first save